Fornication Leads to an Empty Life
He’s wasted the early years of his life on fornicating and traveling and found that it all led to emptiness. He blames our hedonistic culture that doesn’t make women into wives and mothers but instead into feminists who give sex freely and have become sex objects for men. I don’t know anything about this man so please don’t write to tell me that he promotes something I am against. I am writing this post about this article because he has some very good points. Even men who aren’t Christians can see that something is terribly wrong with our culture and what it values. (I don’t know if he is a Christian now.)
“I’ve met too many men who are diverting most of their intellect, time, and energy into gaining leftover scraps of happiness from life instead of building up their communities or nurturing a deeper love with one woman because of how toxic and dangerous both women and our communities have become…All of this wasted time is by design.
“The oligarchs in power don’t want us to become leaders of households and communities. They don’t want men to create loving bonds with women and vice versa (and if you manage to do so in such an inverted climate, permissive divorce laws will reduce the chances it lasts). They don’t even want men to be self-sufficient. Instead, they want you to form weak bonds with other people and focus entirely on your belly and genitals, all while being a cog in the machine that gorges on GMO food, lusts after tattooed women, and consumes entertainment in a lonely urban box. The more atomized you are, and the weaker your relationships, the more dependent you are on the system—on the corporations and government to provide you with a cheap but damaging simulation of love and meaning that used to be real.
“My nature, and I believe the nature of most masculine men I meet, is one of creation, strength, and provision for family, things we’re increasingly not allowed to do, or allowed to do only at impossible cost. I may not be able to change the world and revert back to a healthier time, but I surely don’t have to waste any more time doing exactly what they want me to do.”
When Israel was being led away captive to Babylon, what were God’s instructions to His people? “Build ye houses, and dwell in them; and plant gardens, and eat the fruit of them; Take ye wives, and beget sons and daughters; and take wives for your sons, and give your daughters to husbands, that they may bear sons and daughters; that ye may be increased there, and not diminished. And seek the peace of the city whither I have caused you to be carried away captives, and pray unto the Lord for it: for in the peace thereof shall ye have peace. For thus saith the Lord of hosts, the God of Israel; Let not your prophets and your diviners, that be in the midst of you, deceive you, neither hearken to your dreams which ye cause to be dreamed” (Jeremiah 29:5-8).
Even in an enemy territory as captives, this was God’s perfect plan for them. It is still His plan for us. Build houses. Dwell in them. Plant gardens and eat from them. Take wives and have children. Have your children marry and bear children. Seek peace and don’t listen to false teachers. The author of the article I linked to above knows this is a good and perfect plan for mankind.
We are in enemy territory. Satan is the prince of the power of the air. But God’s plan is still good for us, His children. As women begin to turn back to biblical womanhood, men will follow. This is a great calling upon our lives, women. We are a remnant but told to be salt and light in this wicked culture. Let us make sure we don’t lose our saltiness and blend in with the world. All it has to offer is loneliness and painful regrets of a life poorly lived.
For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.
Jeremiah 29:11
11 thoughts on “Fornication Leads to an Empty Life”
Indeed! A life full of risks danger and unhappiness! Marriage is the right way to go and abstinence before !
Wow, that man had good words to say. That was amazingly perceptive – most people never reach those conclusions. Such good points there.
What I have told my children, both my boys and my girls, is that if they have sex before marriage, then unless they marry that person, then they have lost forever any opportunity to look at their future husband, or their future wife and say to them, “To you, and you only, have I given myself…”
They can never fully give themselves to another because there is always that bit of themselves that they gave away to that other person, that they can never, ever, get back.
Your future wife will never be able to look at you as her “one and only“, her “exclusive possession” (as scripture puts it), because there’s always that part of you that you gave away to someone else, and, again, you can never get it back. Ever.
It’s worth it to me, that my wife and I can look at each other and know that neither of us has ever given ourselves to anyone else, and that she is my “exclusive possession”, and I am hers.
It may not seem like much….
Until you don’t have it to give.
So very true. I was raised to know this, and I stayed a virgin until 33. But, when I doubted I could find a woman to marry and have children with, it was then that sin conquered my resistance.
Two years later, after massive consequences, I left fornication, and honestly, much of it does not tempt me any longer. Of course, putting oneself in tempting situations will lead to falls, since pride leads to destruction.
It is not healthy for a society when promiscuity is encouraged, and childbirth is discouraged and limited. It is how societies destroy themselves.
When Balak, King of Midian wanted to destroy the Jews, he asked Balaam to curse them. Balaam told him they were too strong, but that if he wanted to destroy the Jews, he needed only to send the women of Midian over to the Jews to fornicate with them. Sure enough, a massive plague came on the Jews, and 1 Corinthians 10:8 says 23,000 were killed in one day for the sin of fornication.
It wasn’t until Phinehas took a javelin in Numbers 25, and stabbed a Jewish prince and a Midianitish Princess in the act of fornication, killing them both, that the plague was lifted.
It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God.
I’ve always believed that the problems in our society won’t be fixed by yet another government program. When I was studying Criminology in college, I did a paper on a book about fatherless homes & the rise of crime. What an eye opener. As I worked in juvenile probation, that book literally came to life as most of the young men I dealt with had no fathers in their lives. And the one that did, his father was concerned solely with his career and country club. Though he had two parents, the kid was being *raised* by a live in maid.
Children that aren’t given boundaries and taught about God’s will for them will do anything to make themselves feel better, wanted, & loved. Most of that time, it’s going to lead to a promiscuous life trying to fill that space that’s meant for God. An inevitable train wreck. I saw it daily, in work and in my own family.
Robert you are so right !
Roosh is a great man. I followed all of his advice and met my husband. I would not be married without Roosh.
I have a good story…
I started reading Roosh from way back when he was in South America in the hostel.
I also read his forums with the actual men posting.
So I had a date with a man who evidently was also a reader of PUA blogs. He started asking me questions from the list of ‘Slut Tells’ of which I HAPPILY gave him all of the ‘correct’ slutty answers (I have traveled the world as a single female!) It was fun! Then after dinner, he began ‘location changing’ etc etc…
It was great, I was on a date with a man who had read everything I read about how to get a woman in bed. I was impressed, amused, and already planning my counter-strike.
So finally I get to the counter-strike of telling him the truth that I was Catholic (no birth control heheheh) , I wanted to get married, I want kids, and I am very proud of the fact that I was a virgin.
Anyways…I thought he would have been happy to have met a) a girl who read PUA blogs and b) who had morals. I mean what could be better!
I was the dream girl!
But he wasn’t…and this led to a Legendary Fight in the middle of the street.
He ended up being married with 3 kids and was cheating on his wife.
So anyways….There ya go…because I read Roosh and I knew exactly the games that were being played to get me into bed…I was always One Step Ahead of the Bad Guys.
I knew that I would find the right guy when I told my Counter-Strike and he would be super happy.
My husband heard my counter-strike and was Thrilled! My husband wasn’t put off at all and wanted to get right down to the baby-making LOL which was amusing and cute (it’s nice to know a man wants you to be the mother of his children.) My husband wanted to have sex to Start a Family and Lock Me In as his Wife, and not as a horrid game.
The difference was quite surreal.
But here’s the deal…if a young Christian girl doesn’t know the games men are playing…even the BEST girl could have been roped into the married guys’ game. He had obviously worked on that script with many other girls.
You can’t just say to a girl ‘Stay a virgin’…she needs to understand men’s sexuality and the mental games the really evil men play.
She needs to be a PUA of a higher grade.
Hi Little – I completely agree – I knew I had met the right man when I told him the same about my faith, purity and Catholic principles.
Regarding the PUA blog, counterstrike. amen to that. This is what needs to be taught in schools. There are women (majority out there) who still believe that men and women think alike which is not the case at all and if only they would read these blogs and realise the tricks that certain men will use. There is significant number of girls who have had their hearts broken because nobody bothered to educate them properly on avoiding rogue men who only want to use you as a sex object which is mostly all men out there who are fornicators.)
Instead girls are taught how to objectify themselves (the women and teen magazines all focus on looks and looking sexy) career worship and to act like a guy because that is female empowerment and it will give you one over the men and who run these magazines and have been responsible for supporting financially this feminist idealogy? rogue men who were/are God haters and wanted to give their fellow rogues advantage and make money from it. These guys hate women and the family in general as it is God’s set up.
However the world tells you that you should never mentioned marriage on a date, and never mentioned anything about having children until you are actually in a proper relationship with that person or else you may put them off as if that is a bad thing. This is bad advice as this indicates that the guy is a bad apple and you are better of without him.
I recall reading a story about a jewish woman who did the same thing to the guy she went on a date with, like wanting to get married and have children in order to sift out the wheat from the chaff. Fast forward 9 years later, they are married with children, he never did a runner, therefore he was the right one.
Sally – I agree, very clearly a good piece of advice is to be open about your beliefs from the start. If it puts a man off, he was never going to be the right man.