Written by Ken Alexander When we come to a saving faith in Christ Jesus, we fall under His Lordship in our lives. It’s not that Jesus was not Lord before we were saved, as He is Lord over all, Creator of all things, and He sustains all things by His hand (Col. 1:15; Heb. 1:3). Hence, the Lordship of Christ is without question in our lives before and after salvation. Just as a husband remains head over his wife and…
This Catholic man, Harrison Butker, gave the commencement speech at a Catholic College. He encouraged the graduating women to be wives, mothers, and homemakers. He received a loud, thunderous applause to this! Why can’t all Christian colleges encourage the young women in this way? Why can’t all Christian pastors preach this? Why aren’t all godly, older women teaching this to the younger women? Why??? “For the ladies present today, congratulations on an amazing accomplishment. You should be proud of all…
The most important thing you need to do while raising your children, women, after teaching them all about Christ and His Word and making sure they obey you is to teach them to be led by Truth rather than by their emotions and feelings. As many of you know, I was extremely ill while I was raising my children. I decided early on that I didn’t want to destroy my children’s childhood, so I decided to learn to take my…
Written By Ken Alexander “God loves you just the way you are, but He refuses to leave you that way. He wants you to be just like Jesus.” (Max Lucado). If you go into marriage with the idea that my spouse needs to love me “just the way I am,” you will be in for some surprises. Sure he/she loves you for who you are, and he is willing to live with the “good, bad and ugly” because that is…
If a husband wants his wife to only wear modest dresses, wear her hair long, not watch soap operas nor read sexually provocative romance novels, make sure she trains the children to obey her, and have the home picked up and dinner ready when he gets home, she should willingly submit to him. He is not asking her to sin by asking her to do any of these things. Wives are commanded to submit to and obey their husbands in…
Connie Hultquist’s journey of trying to win her husband back while he was in and out of prison is riveting. May her testimony encourage all of you who are married to difficult husbands. She died in 2021. Here is her story in her own words. Jim and I met in 1966. He was 25. I was 18. He was wild and so was I. When we met, he had already been in and out of prison for about seven years…
I did a poll on Twitter asking only men if leggings were immodest. Here are some of the comments from men: If I’m in line at the market or somewhere where there is a woman dressed in this manner, I look down at the floor and recite memorized Scripture to take every thought captive. As a pastor, I won’t be alone with a woman other than my wife. They are 100% immodest. Anyone who says otherwise needs to repent. You…
By Ken Alexander For those who read this page but still don’t get it, the page is dedicated to training Christian women in Biblical Womanhood. Not in theology, not in how their husbands should treat them, but in a Christian woman’s role as defined by God’s Word, along with other wise advice from an older godly woman. Yes, we believe definitively that a husband is to accept an even greater burden of sacrificial love and care for His wife and…
There are three phrases that we hear often that have caused great harm to marriages. They are “happy wife, happy life,” meet my “emotional needs,” and fulfill my “love language.” They are now all used by women to manipulate their husband into treating them how they want to be treated. In essence, they have become head over their husbands and control them through these phrases, then will divorce their husbands if they don’t submit to their desires. “Happy wife, happy…
My new cookbook called “The Transformed Kitchen: Recipes and Healthy Living” is for sale on Amazon. All of the money I make from my books, I give to a local Birth Choice that supports women who don’t want to abort their babies. Here’s part of the introduction: We must be as wise as serpents, women, and learn to take good care of our families. I have had many years of health issues; thus, I had a lot of time to…