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Prisoners In Our Homes and Marriages?

Prisoners In Our Homes and Marriages?

Yes, some feminists actually believe women are prisoners in their homes and marriages and they must fight to free us from our bondage. You don’t believe me? Here is what a one woman wrote as she shared one of my handwritten posts:

Yes, women are capable of determining what to do with their lives but for women who love the Lord, they want to make their decisions based upon His Word and not their “wants” as many are doing today. The reason many Christian women who work outside of the home are against you advocating for “gender equality” is because they are wise enough to know that God values women and men equally and they both have worth, but they aren’t the same which is what feminists are fighting for. There are many women who don’t want to be men. They like being women and don’t want sameness. We don’t want you advocating for us, because our homes and marriages aren’t prisons. They are God’s perfect will for us because He created them for us.

Has my marriage and being home full time for 32 years been prison for me? No, it has been a wonderful place to be! I have a husband who works hard so I can stay home. I live in a beautiful home. We raised four great children together. He was a wonderful father to them. When I was sick all of those years, I didn’t have to worry about going out to a job since he was my provider. He fixes many things in the home. He helps me often. Just yesterday, I had the freedom to go and pick up my one year old granddaughter to have for a few hours. I then took her over to my parent’s home for a while. They LOVE being with her. Here is my dad carrying her to the car for me. He never wanted my mom to work outside of the home, so he worked hard for many years so my mom could be home full time with us. He told me yesterday that there’s nothing more valuable than a mother home raising her children.

On Tuesday, a friend of mine called and asked if I wanted to go out to lunch with her so we did. Ken has never minded me going out with friends. He trusts me with money and has never said no to anything I’ve ever wanted to buy since he knows I’m not frivolous. I also have time now that my children are all grown up to teach younger women.

Whereas when I had a career, I had to make sure I was at work on time or I’d get in trouble. The stress level was high in order to perform, please my boss, parents, and do a good job. Many nights, I couldn’t sleep because I had some concerns about the next day and then trying to get through it on little sleep. By the end of the day, I was exhausted and had to spend my weekends cleaning, cooking, and shopping for food. Those years felt much more like a prison to me and all for a paycheck? No, thanks.

So, whoever you are, please don’t advocate for me because the more feminists advocate for “their rights” the worse it gets for women. Cultures haven’t gotten better since the women’s rights movement. They’ve gotten worse because children are no longer being raised by their mothers. In Australia, they are advocating for mothers to not even have the choice to stay home because it hurts their economy – not enough people to tax.

“But once a child goes to school, she argued, opting out of the workforce should no longer be an option.

‘Rather than wail about the supposed liberation in a woman’s right to choose to shun paid employment, we should make it a legal requirement that all parents of children of school-age or older are gainfully employed,’ Le Marquand wrote.”

This is what happens when people “hold the truth in unrighteousness” as the Apostle Paul wrote about in Romans 1. They hate God and refuse to live for Him so they rebel against His ways and everything that is good and right. Women, living in submission and yes, even obedience to your husbands isn’t prison. It’s good and godly. Feminists will gladly live in submission and obey their bosses but falsely belief it’s bondage with their husbands. Do you see the hypocrisy? They leave their homes all day for almighty mammon and their children in the care of others. This, too, is foolishness and chasing after the wind.

Should we be surprised that the single biggest factor that is causing Millennials to abandon their faith is the “breakdown of the family” which feminists are responsible for? No. God created us. He gave us roles to fulfill and He knows what’s best for us, which includes mothers raising their children full time and caring for their husbands and homes.

Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do,
do all to the glory of God.

1 Corinthians 10:31

Trying to Stay Visible as Keepers at Home

Trying to Stay Visible as Keepers at Home

The feminists movement of the 1960s began because women felt worthless and invisible. Feminists came along and urged mothers to leave their homes, find careers, make money and a name for themselves. An article written by Leslie Loftus attempts to explain the perplexities of trying to be a stay-at-home mom since feminism. “‘Stay-at-home mom’ became the preferred term for opt-out mothers everywhere precisely because it focused on the children. ‘Housewife’ was too focused on homes and husbands. We were defensive enough rationalizing wasting our education for our children—we weren’t even going to attempt rationalizing that for our marriages. We are women. We’ve got this not only without men, but in spite of them.”

Did you follow that? Feminism hasn’t made women’s life easier; it’s made it more complicated. Women have become ashamed to say they are focused on their homes and husbands but God commands they focus upon them. Focusing solely on the children, as many have done today, is destructive in so many ways, especially for the children and if it ruins marriages from neglect. Then there’s the issue of all the years gaining higher education and most likely careers, yet trying to justify all of this time and money spent when staying home full time with the children. Finally, there’s a dig against men as if men aren’t valuable asset to societies and women don’t need them.

Then when the children are all grown up and gone, the mothers feel invisible and have no idea what to do with themselves. (It happens that I just made a YouTube the other day called Spending My Days as an Older Woman without having a career.) I was one who went to higher education – five and a half years after graduating from high school. I also had a career as a school teacher for three and a half years after that until I was able to come home full time. I never thought to find my identity in my higher education or career. All I ever wanted to do in life was to be married and have children, even though I was steeped in the feminist movement. Schooling and careers never held any sway on me.

Our identities shouldn’t be found in what we decide to do any ways. They are found in Christ, who He says we are, and what He tells us to do. He made it easy for us, women, because He carefully spelled it out in His Word. We don’t need to get involved in “mommy wars” or try to find some false sense of “fulfillment” outside of the home that many women are chasing today.

Leslie also wrote,  “An associate dean of Stanford writes a book on how herding our kids in a higher education rat race stunts their growth, and yet we still persist.” I may have to read this book because I agree. Whether people know or love God or not, they are made in His image and He gave us an instruction manual. He has this to say about worldly wisdom: “For the wisdom of this world is foolishness with God” (1 Corinthians 3:19).  Not every child, male or female, has to go for higher education! There are way more negatives to it these days than positives.

“I think much of the problem is that we bought into the Second Wave idea that the only valued work is paid work.” She’s right. God doesn’t say that making money is the be all and end all. In fact, He warns against the love of money. No, He commands we be Kingdom investors and what greater thing can there be than investing our lives into our husbands, children, and homes?

Her conclusion: “The narrative is this: if you don’t earn a paycheck—complete with Social Security and federal income tax withholding—then what you do is worthless. We secretly believe we are wasting our educations, and that we will be invisible in motherhood.” This right here summarizes the lies women have been fed for far too long. God created you and He created you to marry, bear children and guide the home. You are not invisible to Him and this is all that matters. You are doing Kingdom work.

Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal.
Matthew 6:19, 20

“A Day Without Women” in the Workforce – Something to Celebrate!

“A Day Without Women” in the Workforce – Something to Celebrate!

Women today have become so foolish. They falsely believe that they have more value outside of the home rather than inside of it. They also falsely believe that feminism is what has brought women value; the right to vote, have careers, and be “equal” with men in every way. No, they weren’t being satisfied being women. They wanted to be men.

Feminism is NOT what has brought women value. It degrades women, overworks them, and leaves them more dissatisfied than ever before (the Women’s March proved this). “The elevation of women was in the early period of Christianity understood to be one of the glories of Christianity, yet like a century plant, the seeds of social change planted by the gospel were to take many generations to bear fruit. Nonetheless, within forty years after this writing these aims were beginning to be accomplished, as we see from Clement or Rome’s Epistle to the Corinthians, chapter 1: ‘Nobody could spend even a short while among you without noticing the excellence and constancy of your faith,’ especially among ‘your women-folk,’ who were becoming ‘patterns of discretion in every way.'” (Thomas Oden)

Women today are anything but discreet. Some definitions of being discreet: “careful not to cause embarrassment or attract a lot of attention.” A godly mother who is at home raising her children is discreet and she is doing a powerful work for the Lord. No, she doesn’t get a lot of attention or praise or earn an income, but if she is godly, kind, modest, and hard-working in her home, her husband and children will rise up and call her blessed! Her price is FAR above rubies.

“Work on human hearts and destinies to do imperishable work, to build within life’s fleeting hours monuments that shall last forever.” (S.C. Ferguson) Mothers are doing imperishable work when they invest their lives into their children full time. These little eternal souls live forever and life is fleeting. There is no better way to invest their time than doing this. No one can have a greater impact for good upon a child than their parents.

Another definition of being discreet: “careful and circumspect in one’s speech or actions.” Many women today are the opposite of this. You are called to “keep your behavior excellent among the Gentiles, so that in the thing in which they slander you as evildoers, they may because of your good deeds, as they observe them, glorify God in the day of visitation” (1 Peter 2:12). You are commanded to live soberly, righteously, and godly in this present age. Are you living this way? Are you obeying the Lord in what He has called you to do or have you been swept up with the feminist’s movement and the destruction of womanhood?

“We’ve seen what the world’s curriculum does in the lives of women and how it leaves them disordered and dysfunctional and distressed and in depression. I think it’s time we try God’s way. We see what can happen when we begin to educate and train women in the ways of God” (Nancy Wolgemuth).

Christianity, namely Christ, is what gives women value, not feminism, voting, careers, or making money. The best thing women could do today is quit their jobs and go home to take care of their husbands, children, and home. This is where they are most needed and most profitable. Don’t believe the lie that only rich women can stay home full time. Live simply and frugally within your husband’s income if need be and seek the Lord in wisdom. He is our provider and His commands are not burdensome.

“Love your husband, love your children. Stay home. That’s not an idea I came up with out of my head. That’s from Titus 2. Older women are to teach, encourage, do all that they possibly can to help the younger women to do these things. My objective is to simply point you back to the Word of God.”
from Elisabeth’s radio broadcast (Gateway to Joy) today

Let me end this post with a poem that was written by a retired minister from Tennessee.

I like the “Old Paths”, when Moms were at home.
Dads were at work. Brothers went into the army.
And sisters got married BEFORE having children!

Crime did not pay; Hard work did;
And people knew the difference.

Moms could cook; Dads would work; Children would behave..
Husbands were loving; Wives were supportive; And children were polite.

Women wore the jewelry; And Men wore the pants.
Women looked like ladies; Men looked like gentlemen; And children looked decent.

People loved the truth, And hated a lie;
They came to church to get IN, Not to get OUT!
Hymns sounded Godly; Sermons sounded helpful;
Rejoicing sounded normal; And crying sounded sincere.

Cursing was wicked; Drinking was evil; and divorce was unthinkable.

The flag was honored; America was beautiful; And God was welcome!

We read the Bible in public; Prayed in school; And preached from house to house

To be called an American was worth dying for;
To be called a Christian was worth living for;
To be called a traitor was a shame!

Sex was a personal word. Homosexual was an unheard of word, And abortion was an illegal word.

Preachers preached because they had a message;
And Christians rejoiced because they had the VICTORY!
Preachers preached from the Bible; Singers sang from the heart; And sinners turned to the Lord to be SAVED!

A new birth meant a new life; Salvation meant a changed life; Following Christ led to eternal life.

Being a preacher meant you proclaimed the word of God;
Being a deacon meant you would serve the Lord;
Being a Christian meant you would live for Jesus;
And being a sinner meant someone was praying for you!

Laws were based on the Bible; Homes read the Bible;
And churches taught the Bible.

Preachers were more interested in new converts, Than new clothes and new cars.

God was worshiped; Christ was exalted; and the Holy Spirit was respected.

Church was where you found Christians on the Lord’s day, rather than in the garden, on the creek bank, on the golf course, or being entertained somewhere else.

I still like the Old Paths the best!

Thus saith the Lord, Stand ye in the ways, and see, and ask for the old paths,
where is the good way, and walk therein, and ye shall find rest for your souls.

Jeremiah 6:16

Feminists are Weak Women

Feminists are Weak Women

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Feminists are not strong women as they suppose. They are weak. Strong women don’t get offended at every little thing that disagrees with what they believe. “Modern feminists are afraid of life. They are afraid of differences of opinion, and especially afraid of men.”* Feminists women don’t have the strength to be submissive to their husband. It takes strength to obey our husbands and give up our desires for our husbands and allow them to be the leader of our home. Feminine, godly women have this strength from the Lord and they build up their home instead of tear it down as many are doing today.

Dennis Prager wrote a brilliant piece in the National Review called Feminism Make Women Weak. My favorite part of the entire article was the last paragraph. “You want to know what women are strong? Here’s an example: Any young woman who announced in a college class that as much as she may want a career, she is more interested in finding a good man to marry. In other words, any young woman who announced that she isn’t a feminist.” I wanted to stand up and shout, “YES!” God clearly states what godly young women will most likely want in life besides bringing glory to Him: to marry, bear children, and guide the home.

I wasn’t the least bit ashamed to tell people that I wanted to marry and have children when I was young. I had no interest in a career. “Well, what if you never meet a man who wants to marry you?” I was asked. I will pray and pray that the Lord will give me my heart’s desire. If He does not, I will glorify Him some other way, however, the majority of women do get married and this is a good thing since God created men to need a help meet. “Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man” (1 Corinthians 11:9) Women have forgotten what their purpose in marriage is supposed to be. They forget they are their husband’s help meet and instead, expect their husbands to make them happy.

“Most feminists have conflated equality and sameness. And that’s a huge mistake; the sexes are equal, but they are different.”*  I don’t want to be the same as men. I want to be a woman, just the way the Lord has made me.

Feminine women should understand the differences between the sexes. Men struggle with their sexual nature and this doesn’t make women better and men perverts. No, this is just the way they are. “The male desire to touch the bodies of just about every woman they are attracted to is — trigger warning here — normal. It has nothing to do with hatred of women or viewing women as unequal.”* Strong women can handle this knowledge and instead of being offended by it, we sympathize with men in their struggle knowing that our struggle is with our desire to control our husbands and with our emotional nature. Yes, we are different and we have different struggles. It shouldn’t offend us when we find out that men love women’s bodies. Good, mature men control their sexual nature just as good, mature women control their need to control their husbands and their emotional nature.

As feminine women, our strength isn’t in who we are or the fact that we are feminine, it comes from knowing who we are in Christ and loving the way He created us to be and the role He has given us to do. True strength isn’t fighting this but welcoming it and becoming women with gentle and quiet spirits who dress modestly, love and obey our husband, love our children, are good, chaste, discreet, sober, and keepers at home. Now, this right here is a definition of a strong woman. Her strength comes from the Lord because she could never do all of this on her own.

Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.

Proverbs 31:10, 11

*Dennis Prager quotes from article

The Future is Female?

The Future is Female?

Hillary Clinton has just made a video and she proudly proclaims that “the future is female!” Then she goes on to say how wonderful the Women’s March was last month. (You know, the one where women were bare chested with “NO GOD” printed on their chests, wearing vagina hats, and nailed bloody tampons to the wall.) “We need strong women to step out and speak up. We need you to dare greatly and lead boldly…Set an example for every woman out there who worries if our rights, opportunities, and values will endure. And remember, you are the heroes, the history makers, and the glass ceiling breakers of the future…” 

The future is female. I sure hope it is not. We live in the wealthiest country that has ever existed. Hillary almost became president barring a miracle it seemed. Women are senators, in the military, and do almost whatever they want today. Being raised and living in this culture right now, we are the most blessed women anywhere in the world and have the most opportunities but they are still dissatisfied and angry.

As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths. (Isaiah 3:12) God created men first and He created them to be the leaders: Patriarchs, Kings, Prophets, Apostles, Authors of the Bible, and Priests were all men. This is God’s perfect plan but Hillary and many like her want to rebel against everything that God says is good. This is the rebelliousness in women: to want to take control in marriages, churches, and in countries. Don’t fall for it, women. Fall in line with God’s perfect plan for you.

The rights women today are worried about being taken away are the rights to have their unborn babies murdered. Our constitution grants the right to life, yet the least and most innocent don’t have this right. This is a cruel and evil fact in our country right now. I have no idea what opportunities she was speaking about since women can do everything a man can do now practically speaking. What values is she speaking about? The right for government paid abortions, free birth control, LGBQT rights, and same sex marriage possibly? Theses values aren’t based upon the Word of God but upon a reprobate/depraved mind.

And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper. (Romans 1:28)

Do you see how her values and all those like her are in opposition to God’s values? A mother at home spending her life raising her children will have a much greater impact upon the next generation than anything Hillary proposes. This is why the Lord wants women to marry, bear children, and guide the home. He wants women raising their children in the nurture and the admonition of the Lord, meaning they are steeped in the Word of God, so there will be a strong and godly remnant for Him.

Jesus Christ has broken that glass ceiling for us, women. We have complete access to God the Father whenever we want to go to the throne room of grace. We don’t need godless women to do this for us in their God-forsaken way. We have all we need to live an abundant life because we have Jesus Christ who paid the penalty for our sin, filled us with His Spirit, and has given us many precious promises. Your work in your home with your children and as a help meet to your husband is beautiful in His sight. Never forget this. Turn off the lies of this culture and dig into the living and active Word of God.

Do all things without murmurings and disputings: That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world.
Philippians 2:14, 15

Raising Sons in This Feminist, Anti-Male Culture

Raising Sons in This Feminist, Anti-Male Culture

It grieves me when I see young Christian women calling themselves feminist when we look at all of the destruction they have caused and are causing. Why not call ourselves feminine women who love the Lord Jesus instead! The Federalist wrote an article about Kellyanne Conway, Counselor to the President, whether or not she would call herself a feminist.

She answered: “I don’t consider myself a feminist. I think my generation isn’t a big fan of labels. My favorite label is mommy. I feel like the feminist movement has been hijacked by the pro-abortion movement or the anti-male sentiments that you read in some of their propaganda and writings. I’m not anti-male. One does not need to be pro-female and call yourself a feminist, when with it comes that whole anti-male culture where we want young boys to sit down and shut up in the classroom. And we have all of these commercials that show what a feckless boob the man in the house is. That’s not the way I see the men in my life, most especially my 12-year-old son. I consider myself a postfeminist. I consider myself one of those women who is a product of her choices, not a victim of her circumstances.”

The author of this post, Leslie Loftis, goes on to say how horrible feminism has been for men which many men would agree. “In elementary school, when we drug little boys (and active girls) so that they all conform to our notions of the good little student — that is, the eager-to-learn little girl — the drugs seem to help, for a while.”

We didn’t drug our sons. We knew they were boys and weren’t made to sit in a classroom chair all day long. I finally wised up and began homeschooling them from fifth grade through ninth. They loved those years! They didn’t have to be around all of the JUNK that goes on in the public junior high school. They played, ate, read, played, ate, did math, played, and ate, and went to their sports’ team practices and games. It was a perfect life for boys but it takes a mother home full time with them in order to acccomplish this.

Leslie went on to write, “…boys grow up feeling entitled to women’s bodies and thinking that they can go for it whenever the urge strikes.” My sons did not grow up like this because we consistently taught them the truth of God’s Word, plus (and this is a BIG plus) we didn’t and wouldn’t send them to public high schools and universities from the ages of 15-21 years old where these schools are more like Sodom and Gomorrah than anything else. My sons learned to “bounce” their eyes and run from sexual immorality from a young age and knew that women are to be valued and respected. Both of their wives can attest to this fact today!

Leslie’s conclusion: “It doesn’t matter how we raise our sons. Cultural assumptions run against them, and eventually most of us learn this truth, sometimes the hard way.” Not true. Raise them in the church. Stay married. Hide God’s Word deeply in their hearts. Talk to them openly about everything. Set boundaries of protection. Discipline and train them from the time they are young. Teach them to work hard and they will most likely grow up to be strong, godly men; just what this country needs! Then they will be a product of wise choices, not a victim of any circumstances since Christ in them is stronger than anything that may be thrown their way.

 I have written unto you, fathers, because ye have known him that is from the beginning. I have written unto you, young men, because ye are strong, and the word of God abideth in you, and ye have overcome the wicked one.
1 John 2:14

Women’s Oppression is a Lie

Women’s Oppression is a Lie

This symbol for Feminism means emancipation: “The fact or process of being set free from legal, social, or political restrictions; liberation.” The second wave of Feminism (beginning in the 1960s) didn’t fight to be freed from any of these but instead, they fought and are still fighting to be freed from Christianity and God’s roles for women. Unfortunately, the majority of women today have breathed in this putrid feminist air their entire lives. Few women, including Christian women, are being raised to desire to be how God designed them and wants them to be. Most are being raised to be Feminists.

One example, Christian women continually try to convince me how wrong I am to teach that mothers should be full-time keepers at home. They don’t believe this is biblical. I do. I believe when women understand the root and goal of this newer wave of feminism, they will understand how far it is from what God wants for godly women and how they are called to live their lives.

A woman mentioned that Feminism began in order for government to be able to tax a lot more people, break up the family by mothers working away from the home all day, and having the government raise their children (public schooling). This made sense to me since now many mothers are working full time so they are getting taxed, the majority of divorces are initiated by women, and the government is raising our children as shown by the Women’s March and what they value. This is why all Bible believing Christian women need to RUN away from the feminist mindset as fast as they can and run to the clear Word of God and obey it.

One man believes that the Rockefellers funded feminism and that the CIA financially supported Ms. Magazine (a Feminist magazine).  I decided to check these out to see if they were in fact true.

“Most feminist ‘Women Studies’ funding comes from big foundations like Rockefeller Foundation, Ford Foundation, Carnegie Foundation etc., and of course USAID, UNIFEM and UN. Behind the facade of ‘women’s rights’, Feminism teaches that heterosexual roles (wife, mother, etc.) are socially constructed by MEN and oppressive to WOMEN. This underscores the fact that feminism was created to destabilize the society and undermine the institution of family

American feminist icon Gloria Steinem, (an ex CIA agent) proudly claims in one of her own books that CIA funded Ms. Magazine with the stated goal of breaking up the families and taxing women. Watch MTV program “Sixteen and Pregnant” to understand the real state of affairs of the so called empowered liberated women in America. They fail to understand that this way of marginalizing men through one sided laws will soon, rather than later, force men to back off from running a family to avoid legal, mental, social, physical and financial harassment and also for the well being of age old parents.”

From another articleFeminism has done the most damage. There is no more fundamental yet delicate relationship in society than male and female. On it depends the family, the red blood cell of society. Nobody with the interests of society at heart would try to divide men and women. Yet the lie that men have exploited women has become official orthodoxyThe American woman has been hoodwinked into investing herself in a mundane career instead of the timeless love of her husband and children.

Many women have become temperamentally unfit to be wives and mothers. People, who are isolated and alone, stunted and love-starved, are easy to fool and manipulate. Without the healthy influence of two loving parents, so are their children. 

Feminism is a grotesque fraud perpetrated on society by its governing elite. It is designed to weaken the social and cultural fabric in order to introduce a friendly fascist New World Order. Its advocates are sanctimonious charlatans who have grown rich and powerful from it. They include a whole class of liars and moral cripples who work for the elite in various capacities: social workers, lawyers, ‘educators’ and the media. 

Women’s oppression is a lie. Sex roles were never as rigid as feminists would have us believe. My mother had a successful business in the 1950’s importing watch straps from Switzerland. When my father’s income increased, she was content to quit and concentrate on the children. Women were free to pursue careers if they wanted to. The difference was that their role as wife and mother was understood and socially validated, as it should be.

Until Gloria Steinem and the CIA came along.”

Do you still want to call yourself a feminist and go along with the crowd on the broad path that leads to death and destruction or do you want to be known as a godly woman who loves the Lord and His ways and  joyfully walks on the narrow road that leads to life? Do you still believe that it is not in the best interest of your children to be home with you full time?

Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.
Psalm 119:105

Wise Thoughts on the Women’s March

Wise Thoughts on the Women’s March

As many of you watched the many feminist women march on Saturday for the murder of unborn babies and the “end of patriarchy” whatever that means, the women in the chat room were discussing it and had very wise thoughts concerning it. I want to share some of them with you, but first I wanted to share what I thought about Madonna’s speech since she was one of the main, famous speakers.

“Welcome to the revolution of love. To the rebellion…” with some vile language afterwards. Love and rebellion never go together in the Word of God. “Where not just women are in danger but all marginalized people.” Oh yeah, Madonna, go to any of the Islamic countries and see what real marginalization and danger of woman looks like. You are a rich woman who lives the high life and lacks NOTHING. “The revolution starts here. The fight for the right to be free, to be who we are, to be equal. Let’s march together through this darkness and with each step.” She is living in darkness but she doesn’t even see it because she is blinded by the prince of the power of the air and believes wrong is right. Women will never be equal (the same) as men because God created us male and female. “Yes, I have thought an awful lot of blowing up the White House, but I know that this won’t change anything…I choose love. Are you with me? Say this with me: We choose love. We choose love. We choose love. Love…thinks no evil (1 Corinthians 13:5). Love does no wrong to a neighbor (Romans 13:10).

And if you think it was a peaceful march by good women to protest President Trump’s behavior, why didn’t they protest President Obama when he fully support the murder of full-term babies, same-sex marriage, and all types of perversions. He didn’t support Israel, the police, or the military. Where were they then? Why didn’t they allow those women who were pro-life to march with them if it were for ALL women? Because this is a tweet from the Planned Parenthood President:

No, Cecile Richards, abortion is murder plain and simple. This is why you fight sonograms being given to pregnant women who come into your clinics. You don’t want them to see the life that is growing inside of their womb so you can sell the “blob of tissue” parts for a lot of money. There are six things which the LORD hates, Yes, seven which are an abomination to Him: Haughty eyes, a lying tongue, And hands that shed innocent blood. (Proverbs 6:16, 17)

Now for some wisdom from godly women who are in the chat room.

“I think that on some level, women who vehemently and aggressively fight for ‘women’s rights’ in the form of free health care for anything having to do with abortions, birth control, periods, etc. are mad because they are the sex that has to bear children. Instead of being honored at that amazing gift God has given our bodies, the liberal feminist mindset has ultimately begun to see and preach children as a burden in every sense: periods aren’t fair (even though getting them is a necessary part of our bodies’ ability to bear children), birth control needs to be provided because one should always be able to have sex without any ‘consequences’ just like men because they never have to bear children, and abortions must be provided because women need another option to be ‘consequence’-free. I think they believe men have it so much better because they can live life and never have to be affected by having a child, which they see as a burden. If only people could follow God’s ways! Wait until marriage, stay faithful, and welcome children as blessings!”

Quite frankly, Lori said it perfect….FREE IS NOT FREE!! Just because you get cheaper deductibles and premiums, low or no cost prescriptions and free screenings/exams, does NOT mean they are free. You can bet your last dollar that the provider CHARGES for those. That means, someone has to pay it. It’s us, the overtaxed and underpaid. It’s my husband who works six days a week, 52 weeks a year, 45 mins away from home. It’s me who scrimps and saves every penny. It’s my kids who I have to weigh if I want to take them to the doctor because I have to pay the first $3,000 each for them. It’s us who pays 15% of our income to premiums that still mean I’ll be paying out of pocket every single time we go to the doctor. It’s my kids who have second hand clothing and don’t participate in any paid clubs. It’s the burdened middle class who pays for this. I cannot afford it, but I don’t have a choice. It’s taken from me and redistributed regardless.

I understand it’s hard to know the weight of these financial responsibilities. But, it’s still not others responsibility to provide for me as it SHOULD not be mine for them. Free is not free.

I saw a great analogy. When you are in a nature preserve, there are signs that say do not feed the animals. Why? Because then the animals will never learn to fend for themselves.

Big government redistributing my husbands earned income is not FREE.”

He that walks with wise men shall be wise:
but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.

Proverbs 13:20

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Feminism During the Roman Empire

Feminism During the Roman Empire

King Solomon was right; there is nothing new under the sun. Feminists thought they had found something entirely new but it was not new at all or why would the Apostle Paul, through the inspiration of the Lord, have to tell older women to teach younger women to love and obey their husbands, love their children, be chaste, sober, discreet, good, and keepers at home?

John MacArthur did a teaching on head coverings from 1 Corinthians 11:4-6 but had this to say about the feminist movement:

“We know from secular history that various movements of women’s liberation and feminism appeared in the Roman empire during New Testament times. Women would often take off their veils or other head coverings and cut their hair in order to look like men. Much as in our own day, some women were demanding to be treated exactly like men and they attacked marriage and the raising of children as unjust restrictions of their rights. They asserted their independence by leaving their husbands and homes, refusing to care for their children, living with other men, demanding jobs traditionally held by men, wearing men’s clothing and hairdos, and by discarding all signs of femininity. It is likely that some of the believers at Corinth were influenced by those movements and, as a sign of protest and independence, refused to cover their heads at appropriate times.”

The feminist movement began because women weren’t content being home and raising their children. They wanted to be like men and have careers. The leader of the newer feminist movement in our day and age attacked marriage as well: “The end of marriage is necessary for the liberation of women. Therefore, it is important for us to encourage women to leave their husbands and to not live individually with men. All of history must be rewritten in terms of oppression of women. We must go back to ancient female religions like witchcraft.” The Declaration of Feminism, November 1971

They also wanted to get rid of mothers raising their own children. “How will the family unit be destroyed? … the demand alone will throw the whole ideology of the family into question, so that women can begin establishing a community of work with each other and we can fight collectively. Women will feel freer to leave their husbands and become economically independent, either through a job or welfare.”Female Liberation, by Roxanne Dunbar.

Feminism’s root is satanic. Satan’s goal is to get rid of the Church and the best way to do this is to get women to want to be men, stop staying home and raising godly offspring, and allowing strangers to raise their children instead while women work for the almighty dollar.

There is no new thing under the sun.
Ecclesiastes 1:9

Feminists Lost?

Feminists Lost?

According to the New York Times feminists lost with this last election and the entire piece was trying to figure out why. These sentences caught my eye: “You didn’t hear explicit calls for women to stay at home and be subservient to men, although it’s an open question how many Americans are receptive to questioning traditional gender roles. Many who care about the place of women in American society are gripped by fears that men will have a free pass to demean women at home or in the workplace, that women’s health, economic society and reproductive rights will be dealt severe blows.”  

Have you noticed those who are are opposed to biblical roles for women use the word subservient instead of submissive? Subservient means “prepared to obey others unquestioningly, less important; subordinate, and serving as a means to an end.” Do you see how the enemy of God carefully takes the words God uses and twists them enough to kind of say the same thing but make them sinister and evil? This word change, in my opinion, comes from the pit of hell.

Submission is a willing choice by a godly wife who loves the Lord and desires to obey Him in all that she does. She allows her husband to lead while she follows and yes, she does obey him but can question him if she feels the need. However, she leaves the choice to her husband and doesn’t argue the point with him because she trusts that God’s ways are the very best for her. In following them, there are blessings. Yet, feminists will be subservient to bosses. They will obey them unquestioningly or else they will lose their job. They aren’t as important as their boss since their boss controls everything and is the one to pay them, whereas our husbands share what they make and have with us willingly.  Feminists are serving as a means to an end; they are working for money and for accolades. They can’t see the plank in their own eyes.

Coming back to the comment in the article, do you see how irrational the fears are that they portray? They fear men will have a free pass to demean women at home and in the workplace! Feminists still are in control of the Universities and the media. It’s not feminists who have kept women from being demeaned. In fact, it has grown worse in this country as feminism becomes more influential and society gets farther and farther away from God’s principles. When men are taught biblical principles of kindness, godliness, and love of others is when they do not demean women. There’s nothing feminism can do (making laws) to stop men from demeaning women. As a society spirals into depravity, the worse men and women become. Feminism is a huge part of this downfall.

A nation can’t murder 58 million of its babies and expect life, any life, will be valued. If women are willing to allow their babies in their wombs to be murdered, what makes them think they will be respected by men? If they want to act like men, take over men’s jobs, and stop being women, why would men value women more? They value them less. God is who gives women value. When they want to get rid of God, women lose value. Men value feminine women who act like women. They like soft and gentle women who love to cook for them, take care of their homes, don’t nag them, and please them sexually.

Women’s health, economic society and reproductive rights have been “dealt a severe blow”? I sure hope abortions are stopped since they are murder and the women’s health and reproductive rights they speak about simply mean the right to free abortions and birth control. As you can see from the article, the new feminists want socialism which causes apathy since there is no reward for working hard. Contrary to the popular opinion of feminists, competition is good, especially for men. Men thrive in competition and weaken when it is taken away. No, feminists, these probably haven’t been dealt a severe blow, unfortunately, unless there is a revival in this country. Your agenda is alive and well since Satan is the prince of the power of the air. It is an evil agenda that is far from the heart of the Lord.

For the wisdom of this world is foolishness with God. For it is written, He takes the wise in their own craftiness.
1 Corinthians 3:19