The Transformed Wife

Hi Lori, A few years ago, I never would have imagined that I’d write to you. But here I am, a stay-at-home mom of two reaching out to say hello and thank you. I was raised in all the ways you tell women not to raise their kids: with a nanny, babysitter, and daycare six days a week. Often ate dinner with my nanny. She even took me trick-or-treating some years while both my parents worked. She also came on…

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Shannon Harris was married to Joshua Harris who wrote “I Kissed Dating Goodbye” who has left his marriage and his faith. She has come out with a book. I read an article with an interview from her and I want to point out a few things. Before I begin, you can NOT live out biblical womanhood without knowing and loving Jesus Christ as your personal Savior. You can fake it and even for a long time, but you will always…

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God’s description of a godly woman: *Help meet to her husband *Not false accusers *Not given to much wine *Teachers of good things *Sober *Loves and obeys husband *Loves children *Discreet *Chaste *Keepers at Home *Good *Modest apparel *Shamefaced *Learns in silence with all subjection in the churches *Forbidden from teaching in churches *Forbidden from usurping authority over men *Saved in childbearing *Grave *Not slanderers *Faithful in all things *Subjection to own husband *Reverences her husband *Meek and quiet spirit…

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This is the book that began the transformation in my marriage almost 25 years ago. It’s worn and tattered from reading it so many times, and it’s the book I used to mentor many women. The only doctrine Debi teaches in this book is that of biblical womanhood. I attended Women’s Bible Studies and conferences for 30 years or so. Not once was I taught the doctrine of biblical womanhood. Once I read this book, I began teaching women in…

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Many women ask me what books I recommend since I don’t recommend any that are written by female preachers. They don’t teach biblical womanhood. They don’t teach what God commands they teach. They have no biblical qualifications for teaching what they are teaching. Older women are commanded to teach the young women biblical womanhood as clearly stated in Titus 2:3-5. I have a saved Instagram story with all of my favorite books. Since many women are not on Instagram, I…

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Written By Pastor A Steven Parks A strong woman is one that has tamed her tongue and offers words of encouragement and prayers for success. A strong woman is one who embraces motherhood and seeks to honor and love her husband in marriage. A strong woman is one who values her chastity and remains pure until marriage. A strong woman is one who uses her talents to transform a structure of wood and brick into a secure and loving home…

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A guest post by a black woman who wishes to be anonymous. May you be blessed. I know I sure was! I want to be strong, but in the counterculture way of having a meek and quiet spirit. The world tells us that a ‘good’ Black women is one who essentially acts like a man and I am taking a stand against that lie! How can we expect have strong marriage and be a wife if we aren’t even acting…

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Written By Israel Wayne I recently heard a famous Christian woman introducing a group of Christian celebrities to a stage. Her commendation was that they were all “fierce” and “independent” women. “Fierce” sounds kind of scary to me. “Brave” is good; “courageous” is good, but I think I’d dial back the “fierce” part. But maybe that’s just me. I tend to think of a “Karen” when I think of a “fierce” woman, and it’s not very attractive in my mind….

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