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Living Like An Abigail

Living Like An Abigail

Her husband is an angry, bitter, and unkind man. He isn’t a believer. She loves the Lord deeply and wants to live in obedience to Him. She’s worried about her husband’s eternal soul. He doesn’t physically abuse her in any way, is a good provider, and is faithful to her. He’s just incredibly difficult to live with, and she suffers because of it. She read what I wrote about obligatory sex. She knows it’s true and applies to her since…

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Is “Obligation Sex” Biblical?

Is “Obligation Sex” Biblical?

Women have tried to convince me that “obligation sex” is unbiblical. Posts and articles have been written arguing that it is definitely not biblical. Well, let’s ponder this for a bit. What is the definition of obligation? “An act or course of action to which a person is morally or legally bound; a duty or commitment.” So, naysayers are telling me that wives don’t have a “duty or commitment” to be sexually available for their husbands? What does God have…

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Can a Marriage That Doesn’t Begin With Butterflies Last?

Can a Marriage That Doesn’t Begin With Butterflies Last?

Recently, I made a video called Love is Not an Emotion. The following is my favorite comment underneath the video! “Oh wow! I’m not the only one! I also don’t cry over movies or books, and I also didn’t have butterflies when I accepted my husband’s proposal (the second one). Lack of butterflies caused me to panic the first time he proposed, and I needed more time to think things through. I knew I liked him. I knew in terms…

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Love is Longsuffering

Love is Longsuffering

Our culture is highly repulsed by any type of suffering. If you explain to others that you use a rod on your child because you want them to equate sin with pain, they cry abuse. They also cry abuse if a husband isn’t treating his wife exactly like she wants him to treat her, not helping enough with the housework or children, doing things she doesn’t like, doesn’t meet her emotional needs, and definitely doesn’t make her happy. In their…

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Is Marriage and Child Bearing God’s Plan For All Women?

Is Marriage and Child Bearing God’s Plan For All Women?

“I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully” (1 Timothy 5:14). Whenever I share this verse, undoubtedly someone will tell me that this verse refers to widows only. I have pondered this. Why would God command this of only young widows and not younger single women? Then, I thought of Titus 2:3-5 where God commands older women to teach younger women to love their husbands and…

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TheJoyFilledWife Obeyed God and Won Her Husband From His Porn Addiction

TheJoyFilledWife Obeyed God and Won Her Husband From His Porn Addiction

For some reason, many Christian women don’t really trust God. They believe their ways are higher than God’s ways. Let’s take the matter of a husband who watches porn. If I give them the admonition to live out 1 Peter 3:1-6 as God commands women who are married to disobedient husbands to do, they don’t agree. They give all types of others things women should do, even divorcing their husbands. Ten years ago, I published a post about a friend…

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Rules For the Wife and Mother at Home

Rules For the Wife and Mother at Home

Recently, my husband asked me to look for our car’s title. In the process, I found a file full of letters and cards my children had written to me and many other treasures. I shared one of these on social media and some asked me to make a post out of it, so this is it! May you be convicted and encouraged. It’s so easy to forget to do right. This is why we must be reminded often. I don’t…

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She Won Him Back With a Merry Heart

She Won Him Back With a Merry Heart

This letter from Laine stood out to me in reading over her writings since finding out she is in hospice. It’s about her childhood and is a beautiful picture of a wife winning her husband back after being transformed by Jesus Christ. Read it and be blessed! Dear Sisters, “Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, ‘Never will I leave you, never will I forsake you.’” Hebrews…

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Her Powerful Testimony Convicted Me

Her Powerful Testimony Convicted Me

It was just made known that Laine is in hospice. She’s about my age. She is one of the most powerful mentors in my life after Debi Pearl. I devoured her emails. I printed them all off and saved them in a notebook. She loves the Lord deeply, and this love permeated everything she wrote. Here is her powerful testimony. I pray it will bless you as much as she has blessed me. Her reward will be great!  I have…

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How to Deal With a Husband Addicted to Porn

How to Deal With a Husband Addicted to Porn

Written By Amber from One of My Facebook Groups Pornography is incredibly difficult to quit. It is a very real addiction that rewires the brain. If your husband is open to accountability software, by all means use it. We use covenant eyes. It works on all of our devices. But do not put your trust in software. No software works 100 percent of the time. There is always a way around it. If your husband is open to Christian counseling,…

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