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Adorn Yourself With Submission

Adorn Yourself With Submission

Women these days adorn themselves with many things. They adorn themselves with the latest fashions, makeup, laser and Botox treatments, jewelry, and hair styles. Do you know what God wants us to adorn ourselves with? “But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. For after this manner in the old time the holy…

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Can Men Meet Their Wives’ Emotional and Mental Needs?

Can Men Meet Their Wives’ Emotional and Mental Needs?

Some women have informed me that their husbands are to meet their emotional and mental needs, BUT for some reason, women aren’t supposed to meet their husbands’ sexual needs, unless sex is dictated by how they believe sex should be and when they’re in the mood. Yes, women, this is how many women think these days. Instead of living sacrificial lives, they decide on how their husbands are to love and treat them. This is NOT love. I wrote the…

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Never Becoming Grandparents

Never Becoming Grandparents

Many of my friends my age are still not grandparents. Their daughters went along with the feminist’s agenda of seeking higher education and careers. Now, those children are enjoying the material wealth and their lives so much that they don’t want to marry and/or have children. It’s epidemic, sadly. When they finally want to marry and/or have children, it may be too late. In an article called Thirty, Flirty, and (Not) Thriving, the author wrote about this situation. “Like Jenna…

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Discouraged About Meeting a Good Man

Discouraged About Meeting a Good Man

Written By Darryl McIntyre The following is a message I wrote 15 years ago to encourage a Christian lady who was going through a severe burnout, which was complicated by a series of failed relationships. I have concealed her identity. She was an attractive lady and highly successful, but said that her life felt empty. She was eager to meet Mr. Right and start a family. Now in her late thirties, she was discouraged about her prospects of meeting a…

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Becoming Attractive to Your Husband

Becoming Attractive to Your Husband

John Michael Clark wrote a list for men on these issues, so I decided to write a list similar for women. A few tips on building attraction with your husband: 1. Pay attention to what makes him moody. 2. Don’t get upset when he shuts you down. 3. Publicly embarrass him with compliments. 4. Look up and smile at him when he enters the room. 5. Make his life more restful by not arguing with him and needing to have…

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Why is Our Culture Falling Into Chaos?

Why is Our Culture Falling Into Chaos?

In 1996, Pastor John MacArthur preached a number of sermons called The Fulfilled Family. I quoted one in a post a few days ago. The first sermon in the series is called “A Plan For Your Family.” Feminism’s goal was to destroy the family, and they have been successful at doing this. When the family is destroyed, the nation is destroyed. We can’t expect to wander far from God’s design for us and have anything good come from it. Here’s…

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There’s No Such Thing as Cheap Sex

There’s No Such Thing as Cheap Sex

In an article in WSJ called “Cheap Sex and the Decline of Marriage,” you will find that the free, cheap sex that feminism promoted is not so cheap. There are some very interesting facts in this article that isn’t even written from a Christian perspective. A man named Kevin said this, “Girls are easier to mislead than guys just by lying or just not really caring. If you know what girls want, then you know you should not give that…

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How Did Your Parent’s Marriage Impact Your Marriage?

How Did Your Parent’s Marriage Impact Your Marriage?

Whether we like to admit it or not, our parent’s marriage impacted our marriages for good or bad. It’s the greatest model we had in our childhoods of what a marriage should look like. Taking on the good things to our own marriage is good and unlearning the bad things is vital to a healthy marriage. I asked the women in the chat room to share what they had learned from their parent’s marriage and how it impacted them. I…

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Mutual Consent in the Bedroom

Mutual Consent in the Bedroom

Throughout the years, I have been asked a lot of questions from women about sex in marriage. The questions about oral and anal sex are the ones most commonly asked. I love what Got Questions has to say about both of these: “Is oral sex a sin if done within a marriage? “Many, perhaps most, Christian married couples have had this question. What makes it difficult is the fact that the Bible nowhere says what is allowed or disallowed sexually…

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Never Be Offended By Truth

Never Be Offended By Truth

✨ Yesterday, I proved that women overwhelmingly reject being taught to learn what pleases their husbands and to be sexually available to them no matter who delivers the message or how it’s delivered. ✨ First, I shared a post with my write up and a link to the pastor who preached on this topic. Women were furious with him and me for even pointing out the good things he taught, even though I shared the things I disagreed with. ✨…

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