The Transformed Wife

Jillian Sanders wrote an article titled “The Era of Desperate Single Women is Over – Here’s What Women are Choosing Instead.” Jillian wrote, “In quiet, almost invisible ways, they’re taught to be the helper, the caretaker—the one who smooths edges, anticipates needs, and makes life easier for everyone else.” Oh, really? No, we’re taught to be feminists from the time we are toddlers. Girls are constantly asked what they want to be when they grow up, and they’re not allowed…

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A feminist wife isn’t a partner. She’s a rival in disguise. And the truth is— A man can fight the world. But he can’t come home every night and fight his wife too. Because when a woman sees marriage as a competition, She doesn’t just ruin her peace. She ruins yours. And eventually—she ruins the home you built together. Let’s break it down: ⸻ 1. She Sees Leadership as Control You call it guidance. She calls it domination. You make…

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“Around 69% of divorces in heterosexual marriages are initiated by women.” The vast majority of these women are college educated. “Women often feel less satisfied in marriages due to unmet emotional needs, poor communication, and lack of independence.” My grandmother and mother never even thought about emotional needs. It wasn’t a term until the 1980s when a psychologist came up with it. Read HERE why he did. It’s only cause devastation upon marriage. Both my grandma and mother married quiet…

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This post is for those who don’t follow me on social media to let you know that I am presently going through “Created to Be His Help Meet” on my YouTube channel if you’re interested. The link is HERE I thought since this is my favorite marriage book, it was time to do this! Enjoy! Love, Lori

Written By the Puritan Richard Baxter (1615 – 1691) from his book “The Godly Home.” These are Richard Baxter’s instructions to wives. They are convicting and challenging! Direction 1 : Be especially loving to your husbands. Direction 2: Live in a voluntary subjection and obedience to them. It is God who appointed them your heads. Do not deceive yourselves by giving the bare titles of government to your husbands when you must have your will in all things, for this…

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This was written by Stacee Kameya on Facebook in response to the above post. A lot of these women in the comment section don’t seem to understand men. Men are not trying to come home and annoy their wives by throwing their socks on the ground and their clothes. They just worked a long hard day, laboring and using their bodies all day. They’re sweaty, they smell, and they are exhausted. The only thing they’re thinking about is getting out…

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Written By Jonathan Hollerman on Twitter What does the Church teach about Womanhood and Marriage? Egalitarian – “Equality” of sexes, marriage is mutual submission, no hierarchy Complementarian – Pietistic headship and submission, rejects male “authority” Biblical Patriarchy – “Father Rule” Historical and biblical view on gender roles Since Christians have increasingly rejected Biblical Patriarchy over the last 100 years and brought secular philosophy of love and marriage into the church, we’ve seen the utter destruction of the Christian family. Just…

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Written By Pastor Gabriel Hughes There are times where, as a pastor, I’ve been asked to interview a young man on behalf of a young woman in my congregation. These are among the questions I ask. They are the same questions I’ll ask any young man who wants to date, court, or marry one of my daughters: 1. What is the gospel? Defend the deity of Christ. 2. How often do you study your Bible? Pray? Attend church? 3. What…

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This is a comment given by Trey on my post Living Like An Abigail: I hear so many Christian wives these days talking about how bad their husbands are. The problem even seems to exist with Christian husbands who are reading their “Bible steadily, listening to sermons, and praying.” The one actually causing the problem in the marriage never seems to be the wife though. It is always their husband’s fault. And then I hear statements like these, “This is…

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