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Virginity is a Patriarchal Concept?

Virginity is a Patriarchal Concept?

Everything seems to be blamed on “Patriarchy” and “White Supremacy” these days, doesn’t it? Why is that? It’s to find an excuse and blame someone else for their own misery or something they don’t like. That’s it. Here’s a woman whose rant went viral when she shared what she is teaching her five daughters about virginity. “Cayce’s video immediately went viral with over two million views. In it, she explains why she is raising her five daughters to believe that…

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Teaching Your Children to Be Chaste

Teaching Your Children to Be Chaste

If you don’t teach your children to be chaste, culture will teach them to fornicate freely. This was a good conversation in the comment section on my post “The Devil Hates Your Marriage” written by John Michael Clark: “When and how should I talk to my kids about sex? I told them that I want and expect them to save themselves for marriage. Teaching them to not do anything beyond kissing, or putting themselves in situations that may be too…

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Seeking Sexual Compatibility?

Seeking Sexual Compatibility?

Many have commented on my posts about virginity that this just won’t do since couples need to make sure they are “sexually compatible.” Some have said they need to “test drive” a potential future spouse before marriage. This mindset is not biblical but satanic. There’s NOTHING in God’s Word about seeking someone who is sexually compatible nor test driving anyone before marriage. No, God wants us to live lives of being chaste before marriage (no fornication) and after marriage (no…

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Can You Glorify God When You Masturbate and/or Watch Porn?

Can You Glorify God When You Masturbate and/or Watch Porn?

There’s much controversy whether or not masturbation is wrong. My question to you is can you glorify God while masturbating since we are told to glorify the Lord in all that we do? Can you masturbate and not have sexual images dancing in your mind? I doubt you can do either. Can you masturbate without lusting since lusting is sin? Do you want to live for the Lord completely, be set apart, and holy while walking in the Spirit, or…

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Can Sex Be Separated From Intercourse?

Can Sex Be Separated From Intercourse?

What is sex? Is it just intercourse? Are unmarried couples who are fooling around and ejaculating with each other but not having intercourse having sex or just fooling around? President Clinton told the world that he did NOT have sex with that woman. He only had oral sex so was he telling the truth? What exactly is purity and being chaste before marriage? How about anal sex? I found out about some young women who pledged purity until marriage but…

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Only Have Sex With People Who Respect You?

Only Have Sex With People Who Respect You?

“When I was 14, my mom said I should NOT wait until marriage to have sex – I didn’t even need to wait for love. Her advice was to only have sex with people who respected me. I don’t have a punchline. I just think if more moms said this to their daughters, life would be easier.” This was written by Amy Silverberg on Twitter.  This tweet had almost 497,000 likes and 63, 000 retweets. One person responded: “I’m VERY…

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Marrying a Virgin is No Big Deal?

Marrying a Virgin is No Big Deal?

You would think from the reaction (even from Christians) from my viral post, Men Prefer Debt Free Virgins Without Tattoos, that marrying a virgin or not is no big deal. After all, there are few virgins, anyway, so what does it matter? Once one is forgiven, it’s all washed clean, right? For one thing, God, our Creator, tells us that it matters. He commands older women to teach younger women to be chaste. This means to remain virgins until marriage…

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Whose Job is it to Teach Children About Being Chaste?

Whose Job is it to Teach Children About Being Chaste?

My husband and I discovered that many women claimed to have been hurt by the “purity culture” after our post on this topic, but it seems they were hurt more from their sin and then looked for someone or something to blame it on. We live in a victim culture that never seems to want to place the blame for their sin on themselves. The entire “purity culture” grew out of a deep void that was lacking in the youth….

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The Great Cost of Fornication and the Beauty of Virginity

The Great Cost of Fornication and the Beauty of Virginity

Virginity isn’t popular in our culture, no, not even among Christians. Contrary to popular opinion, God takes it seriously and warns us strongly against the sin of fornication (sex outside of marriage consisting of a husband and his wife). Remember, He destroyed two cities due to fornication. Then in Revelation, we are told about the “great whore, which did corrupt the earth with her fornication” (Revelation 19:2). Fornication corrupts. All of His commands to us are for our good; they…

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Was the Purity Culture Harmful and Dangerous?

Was the Purity Culture Harmful and Dangerous?

Written by My Husband, Ken, and Me There’s an article in the New York Times called, “How Should Christians Have Sex?” In it, the Christian author, Katelyn Beaty, tries to explain why the purity culture was harmful and dangerous. She was taught abstinence until marriage and signed a pledge that she would wait for sex until her wedding night. There were purity rings, purity balls, and even journals in which she wrote letters to her future husband. She feels that…

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