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Does Virginity Correlate to Your Salvation?

Does Virginity Correlate to Your Salvation?

The purity culture has received a bad name in recent years. It seems there are many different views on the purity culture depending upon how one was taught. In an article that claims that men received a free pass in the purity culture, I beg to differ. It sure didn’t with my sons! I taught them as much about purity as I did my daughters. I knew it was important for all of them. “Virginity, specifically female virginity, is sacrosanct…

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Are You a Sports Fish or a Keeper?

Are You a Sports Fish or a Keeper?

Suzanne Venker wrote the following on her Facebook page recently: “In Steve Harvey’s book, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, he writes that men fish for women but can only catch what they’re able to reel in. ‘Men will treat women like one of two things: a sports fish or a keeper. A sports fish doesn’t have any rules, requirements, respect for herself, or guidelines; and we men can pick up her scent a mile away. She’s the…

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Teaching Your Children to Be Chaste

Teaching Your Children to Be Chaste

Teaching your children to be virgins before marriage isn’t enough. There’s no boundaries when teaching this. This is why many young people are confused as to how *far* they can go sexually. Is petting okay? Is French kissing okay? Is some form of nakedness with each other okay? There’s a lot of guilt when boundaries aren’t clearly established. Older women are taught to teach young women to be chaste. What does chaste mean? I have an entire chapter on this…

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Virginity is a Patriarchal Concept?

Virginity is a Patriarchal Concept?

Everything seems to be blamed on “Patriarchy” and “White Supremacy” these days, doesn’t it? Why is that? It’s to find an excuse and blame someone else for their own misery or something they don’t like. That’s it. Here’s a woman whose rant went viral when she shared what she is teaching her five daughters about virginity. “Cayce’s video immediately went viral with over two million views. In it, she explains why she is raising her five daughters to believe that…

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Teaching Your Children to Be Chaste

Teaching Your Children to Be Chaste

If you don’t teach your children to be chaste, culture will teach them to fornicate freely. This was a good conversation in the comment section on my post “The Devil Hates Your Marriage” written by John Michael Clark: “When and how should I talk to my kids about sex? I told them that I want and expect them to save themselves for marriage. Teaching them to not do anything beyond kissing, or putting themselves in situations that may be too…

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Seeking Sexual Compatibility?

Seeking Sexual Compatibility?

Many have commented on my posts about virginity that this just won’t do since couples need to make sure they are “sexually compatible.” Some have said they need to “test drive” a potential future spouse before marriage. This mindset is not biblical but satanic. There’s NOTHING in God’s Word about seeking someone who is sexually compatible nor test driving anyone before marriage. No, God wants us to live lives of being chaste before marriage (no fornication) and after marriage (no…

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Can You Glorify God When You Masturbate and/or Watch Porn?

Can You Glorify God When You Masturbate and/or Watch Porn?

There’s much controversy whether or not masturbation is wrong. My question to you is can you glorify God while masturbating since we are told to glorify the Lord in all that we do? Can you masturbate and not have sexual images dancing in your mind? I doubt you can do either. Can you masturbate without lusting since lusting is sin? Do you want to live for the Lord completely, be set apart, and holy while walking in the Spirit, or…

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Can Sex Be Separated From Intercourse?

Can Sex Be Separated From Intercourse?

What is sex? Is it just intercourse? Are unmarried couples who are fooling around and ejaculating with each other but not having intercourse having sex or just fooling around? President Clinton told the world that he did NOT have sex with that woman. He only had oral sex so was he telling the truth? What exactly is purity and being chaste before marriage? How about anal sex? I found out about some young women who pledged purity until marriage but…

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Only Have Sex With People Who Respect You?

Only Have Sex With People Who Respect You?

“When I was 14, my mom said I should NOT wait until marriage to have sex – I didn’t even need to wait for love. Her advice was to only have sex with people who respected me. I don’t have a punchline. I just think if more moms said this to their daughters, life would be easier.” This was written by Amy Silverberg on Twitter.  This tweet had almost 497,000 likes and 63, 000 retweets. One person responded: “I’m VERY…

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Marrying a Virgin is No Big Deal?

Marrying a Virgin is No Big Deal?

You would think from the reaction (even from Christians) from my viral post, Men Prefer Debt Free Virgins Without Tattoos, that marrying a virgin or not is no big deal. After all, there are few virgins, anyway, so what does it matter? Once one is forgiven, it’s all washed clean, right? For one thing, God, our Creator, tells us that it matters. He commands older women to teach younger women to be chaste. This means to remain virgins until marriage…

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