One of my favorite shows ever was the Duggar reality TV show. It was decent. It was God-centered. The children were happy and obeyed their parents. They all dressed modestly. The parents loved each other. They didn’t watch TV, go to dances, or listen to rock music. They didn’t have boyfriends or girlfriends. They “dated” to marry, and most saved their first kiss for the wedding. When they were courting, they took a younger sibling along. The children were taught to work hard. All of these can be backed up by Scripture. Yes, every single one.

The Bates family are friends of the Duggars and raised their children the same way. Some of their older children are still following their parent’s convictions, and others are not. Once married, each couple decides how to raise their children and how they will live their lives. The world has a huge pull on Christians to conform to the world.

Yes, I know about Josh, and now, another son is in serious trouble. I don’t believe letting children become popular is a good thing. Josh succumbed to his sin before they were on the TV show, but the parents had dealt with it as best as they knew how. The truth is that we are all responsible for our own behavior, no matter how well we were raised. Both of those sons made terrible decisions that have greatly harmed their families and others. We can do all we can to raise godly offspring, but in the end, they have the freedom to follow and obey Christ or not.

I grieve and pray for this family. The Lord will be with them all the way. I’m sure they are on their knees for their two prodigal sons. God hears their prayers. Those sons know Truth. They may pay for their sin for many years, but hopefully, they will return to the faith they grew up with.

Many want to blame the parents. I know godly families who have prodigals. It happens. This world lies in wickedness, and Satan is the prince of the power of the air roaming around seeking whom he may devour. This is why we must continually be in the Word and renewing our minds with Truth. Put on the full armor of the Lord! Speak truth to your children daily. Remind them of this spiritual battle being waged in the heavenlies. Pray for their protection and that they will always walk in Truth.

And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
Romans 12:2

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