The Progression of Sexual Sin in Our Culture
When I went to a public high school in the mid 1970s, life was becoming highly sexualized since it was after the 60s sexual revolution. Most of my friends were sleeping around with their boyfriends and some were having abortions. One of my dates picked me up drunk and took me to a “party.” He led me to a bedroom. I sat on the side of the bed and told him to take me home. I wasn’t about to have sex with a guy before marriage even though most everyone else was doing it. I didn’t know anyone who was homosexual (all the guys seemed to want women but I am sure there were some) and no one was changing genders back then. I didn’t even know there was such a thing. There was no Internet so porn wasn’t widespread.
I shared this with the chat room. Here are what one woman wrote, and it shows the progression of sexual sin in our culture.
“Yep. That and more! Graduated in 2011. It was just when the whole transgender LGBTQ movement came out. In eighth grade, if you weren’t gay or didn’t fit atypical gender roles, you were made fun of. By the time I was a senior in high school, if you were gay or trans, you were popular. Everyone wanted to be friends with the gay guys and girls.”
One mother I know sent her son to the local high school a few years ago. She told me that it was the most oppressive place that she had ever stepped foot on. Why she sent him there is beyond me since she wasn’t working outside of the home and a strong believer.
The Bible tells us that this “sexual revolution” takes place when people refuse to acknowledge Him. They know He exists (everyone does – Romans 1:20) yet they “hold the truth in unrighteousness” (Romans 1:18). Instead of glorifying Him and being thankful, they “became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened” (Romans 1:21), then God gives them over to reprobate minds (Romans 1:28). “And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet” (Romans 1:20-27). This is what happened to Sodom and Gomorrah and is happening to many countries around the world including America.
Women, the public schools are DANGEROUS! The LBGT agenda is being forced upon the children. Sex education begins when they are young and teaches them abominable things. They don’t need to think about being the opposite sex. They need to be taught that the way God made them is perfect and that sex within the marriage bond between a man and his wife is the only way for a believer in Jesus Christ to live.
As pedophilia becomes normalized, it’s more important than ever that mothers are home full time with their children teaching, training, and protecting them. All of God’s commands are for our good and for the good of our children. God knows the best place for you to be is in your home, and He knows the best place for children to be is in their homes with their mothers.
It’s your job to protect your children, help them to develop deep roots in Jesus, and grow up to be lights in a wicked generation. Many are lost and in need of a Savior. They will never find joy in delving into promiscuous, depraved sexual behavior. It will only lead to more and more pain and suffering. God promises this.
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
1 Corinthians 6:18
19 thoughts on “The Progression of Sexual Sin in Our Culture”
The society is moving toward anything goes, anything at all. It’s 50,000 genders rejecting God’s ordained sex assignment of male and female, rejection of biology in favor of a spectrum. Sex can be with who ever or whatever. As in the last days . This up and coming generation will be more confused then ever without any moral compass. They are just told “do what feels good” doing what feels good can have disastrous consequences. 2nd Chronicles 36:16, 2nd Peter 3:3, Jude 1:18
Hi Lori.
You didn’t write out Romans 1: 26 “Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones.” The reason why I pointed that out was a while back I spoke to both a young man and a woman who both told me that women were much more prone to experimenting with homosexuality than the men. Woman are the weaker ones and many don’t see any difference at all with being with a woman. Maybe your younger readers can confirm this.
Isn’t it odd that if a female wants to be feminine and take on traditional roles of womanhood then she is “oppressed”, but if a man decides to ditch his biological sex and “become” a woman then he is liberated?
The new generation is so backwards.
Women like myself are looked down upon for wanting to be women! But yet a man will get praised if they want to be a woman!
The end game of feminism is lesbianism. Both men and women eventually indulge in sexual promiscuity once they reject God Almighty as clearly explained in Romans 1.
Dear Lori, back in 1982/3, the National Organization for Women had this membership-drive phamplet, and us members were asked to distribute these. The points raised on the page seemed reasonable – except one. And that one point kept me from distributing the phamplets. Because, while i was not a Christian at the time, some of the women i worked with, were Christians, while others, saved or lost just didn’t think eve dating ellen was okay. Either way, i did not want to offend them with a page taking a pro-lesbian stand, otherwise would have passed them out. Things were different then.
“I wasn’t about to have sex with a guy before marriage even though most everyone else was doing it.”
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That is the perfect way to do marriage.
God’s way,of course.??
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I am 20 right now and in these modern times,if anyone even says this..they’ll be made fun of.
This cheapening of sex,which should be had within the holiness of marriage of course and accepting of sin just makes me sad and disappointed.
God washes away our sins but the consequnces remain.
One major consequence which comes to my mind right now is Retroactive Jealousy.
I would be terrified if my future wife isn’t chaste.
I hope you do a post on Retroactive Jealousy Mrs.Lori Alexander.
This is all Satan’s plan.
It’s carefully thought-out, step-by-step process that perverts and twists every aspect of God’s design.
Because after all, this is Satan’t purpose and goal: not to “create” an alternative. but simply to “destroy” and deface all of God’s designs. What God builds, Satan tears down. Building is difficult, tearing down is so easy. Satan is lazy and weak, but it doesn’t take much to destroy.
This is why every culture, every society that has ever grown and prospered, without exception, worshipped God. Because only God has the vital force and the power to drive “growth and beauty” instead of sitting back and allowing rot and decay.
@Jane, I agree with you and as the mother of two sons (19 & 20) it worries me greatly. My sons are very masculine. They lift weights, chop wood, have beards and are studying masculine fields: mechanical engineering and electrical engineering. They are constantly put down by other students and the media at large for being “Manly men”. They hold doors open for women (a dangerous practice these days), and woe to me if I try and take out the garbage when they’re around. My husband has done a wonderful job raising our boys to be real men and society wants nothing more than to tear them down. I fear for the future.
You have raised GREAT sons, Michaela.
Sounds like your sons will make wonderful husbands!
It doesn’t matter what society says – women will always be attracted to manly men. I always said if a man can’t pick me up and hold me down he’s no good to me – meaning I wanted a big, burly, strong man who isn’t afraid to be a man.
If you read romance novels (some on here call it porn for women) you will see the big, strong, manly, attractive gentleman will never go out of style.
Lori are you familiar with vicki of victorious secrets? You sound exactly like her which is great it seems that you are living the same thing she is a grand mother like you and she just made a video where she adress the exact same topic of this article watch this https://youtu.be/EaoVd1-3ORM
Thank you, Lori and KAK! My husband and I are pleased with how they have turned out. We worry, though, about marriage. They want the life my husband and I have built and I don’t know if they will be able to do that. I do not believe all women are shrews, but it’s going to be pretty hard to find a wife willing to be a full-time SAHM these days, a wife who will put her husband first. The kids know Dad comes first (after God) in my life. (example: I cook for Dad, but you’re welcome to come along for the ride. This means, if my husband doesn’t like a particular meal, I’ll only make it if he’s away on a business trip, no matter how much everyone else likes it.) I pray God will send them the right woman and I truly believe, if my husband and I do OUR job in raising them as they should go, God will take care of the rest. But I still worry, because, well, moms do!
Yash, there is hope. My eldest (24) just got married, to a wonderful young man she met a year ago. Her husband was her “first” everything. First time holding hands, first time dancing with a man, first kiss, etc. She was her husband’s first in all those, as well. Stay on God’s path and all will be well with you.
I saw a video on Youtube: There was some woman protesting something-or-other in a crowded city square, I believe it was in Romania or Hungary. The woman took off her shirt and bra and was holding up a big sign above her naked breasts.
An old woman, a grandmother, strode right up and KICKED the young girl in the butt then started hitting the girl with her purse and yelling at her angrily. The young girl, who was so proud of her nude breast act, was suddenly being whacked and yelled at by a whole crowd of people, and ran away crying.
I wanted to cheer. That’s what we need again in our culture. These sluts and scum are allowed to wallow in filth and drag us all with them.
Society needs to start criminalizing this behavior again.
And where has the “church” been during all of this? Mostly just following along a few steps behind the culture, especially in accommodating whatever women wanted. The conservative churches now are where feminism was 20 years ago.
I went to a false church in the 90’s. Our youth pastor had 3 single daughters all of which were sexually active. The fact that 2 of them had children out of wedlock was convincing evidence enough. I dated the third but never.. Never heard any correction of this behavior, nothing about sexual sin or even sin for that matter. Any corrections for sinful behaviors are directed exclusively at men. Just be sensitive to women. Give them moral cover for their sins. Turn a blind eye and be kind. Slow but steadily slips away your culture, your families, civilization, safety and perhaps eventually our very lives.
Alternatively I suppose we could confront women’s sin as well as men’s. At least in the church. Even at the risk of offending them. If you had to venture a guess which of the two sexes is most likely to completely flip out, act incensed at the very idea of correction or criticism? Rhetorical of course. Above criticism. It’s what we’ve taught them thereby sealing their ears, Keeping them on the broad path that leads to destruction.
There will be a huge loss of money if you tell women what to do. Churches are female playgrounds. Women tithe. Men are less regular, less devout and less inclined to pay. For example I know of a family where dad works very hard and attends a church of his choosing. His wife meanwhile leads the children to another church and tithes her lesser income weekly. He knows better than to waste mortgage repayments on tithing and will simply make offerings as he can. But he sadly serves alone. Of course his wife appears to be th devout angel in her church community and he the pariah. When really it’s the opposite!
You said it right. I’ve seen examples like this as well. Women in these so called churches are Particularly disinclined to sound doctrine. 2 Timothy 4. Men however are too pitifully weak to stand up to them if they even know the truth. The reset to the truth would have to happen over the Incessant screaming of bloody murder from the feminist presently controlling the show.
Gospel truth, sound doctrine and the will to obey is all we need. We actually don’t need buildings or pastors who are just hired hands. I would stand outside in a hailstorm with my bible over my head to hear the truth preached. I won’t sit on a theatre chair in a climate controlled auditorium with a bunch of goats while the worst one in the herd flatters the rest. And then give him/her money? To hell with that.
The church I attend upholds God’s standards to both men and women and everybody is expected to follow them. There is church discipline for those who do not wish to uphold the standards and yes, it often results in people leaving the church. But it is better to have a small church strong in faith and strong in upholding the standards God laid out in His word, than a large, false church that doesn’t truly teach all of the Bible.