Written by Alice on X

Yes, many men only wanting only oral sex is sadly true. I see many men say they would not even date or marry a woman who won’t do it, yet they claim to want traditional women. Well, traditional women most certainly did not do oral sex; you have feminism to thank for only that. Traditional women wouldn’t even have known what it was! We all only know because of porn and Hollywood pushing it. It’s so sad that everything people think is normal about sex comes from porn; it has destroyed all the intimacy between men and women.

This was in a book I read recently: “The world may change and progress as you call it, but God is the same yesterday, today and forever, and God’s principles never change despite the world’s fashions,” and I think many Christians need to remember this.

It existed the same way sodomy existed, which was in the depraved, quiet parts of society, among those who were immoral. I never said it didn’t exist before porn; quite the opposite but it was not at all normal until the sexual revolution and porn. It did not exist for 98 percent of people before the 1960s. Not only that but it is also true majority of our female ancestors would not have even known such an act existed let alone partake in it and they would have been horrified by it.

(Grok confirmed this as being true: “In Christian Europe and early America it was heavily condemned and less common in ordinary marriages, rising sharply after the 1960s. Porn accelerated the shift to near-universal expectation, but the act itself is ancient, not a modern invention.”)

That’s what people don’t understand that we are all post-porn, and people have been perverted without even knowing it. Our ancestors would have been innocent compared to all of us. Their minds were not corrupted by pornographic acts and material like ours are. They would be horrified by what is considered sex today. Most women did not even know what sex was until their wedding night before the 20th century, and then it was only normal reproductive sex.

Most people can’t even grasp these things today again because we’re 60 years into the sexual “liberation” and so people think these things have always been normal so much so that they’re now considered a total given. As I said, even many prostitutes in a brothel 100 years ago wouldn’t even do most things considered normal today; that’s how far we have fallen.

Just to mention, there is also a rise in throat cancer that is linked to oral sex, and it’s risen because, again, ordinary people were not doing this before the last few decades. Like I said, even in the 1980s it was still only a minority of women who reported partaking in it, and it’s now almost all women.

Oral sex is also linked to risk and is very unhealthy, because it’s not the sex God created. No one likes to hear these things, though, because Christians have been as affected by porn as everyone else. I know it’s unpopular to say because of how normalized oral sex is now, but I care about the truth and history, and I have respect for our ancestors. It is important to me that the facts and the way people were is portrayed accurately.

***Pastor John MacArthur wrote four articles on “The Rape of Solomon’s Song.” Many these days believe oral sex is in the Song of Solomon. It’s not. My husband attended seminary in the 1970s. There was no oral sex in it the Bible. This is a modern-day myth to support culture’s debauchery. Here are all four parts. They are worth reading.

Part One

Part Two

Part Three

Part Four

I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.” This calls for a life consecrated to God as an act of worship.
Romans 12:1