To the average Gen Z woman, oh how far you have fallen! The average modern Gen Z woman has, as far as anything of meaning or substance goes, absolutely nothing to offer a man. They have fallen for the scams of feminism and materialism which removes all but the slightest reminisce of value.
You can blame your parents; you can blame society, or you can blame social media, but the buck stops with you! You are a woman operating with extreme self-importance and delusion, a woman operating not even close to your intended purpose, and it will never, ever make you ultimately happy.
Genesis 2:18 “And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.”
If you are a valuable man and you have endured any part of the modern dating process in the last 10 years, then you will know that the modern woman does not conform to the above verse! Us men are here for the Gen Z woman’s pleasure, and we better know it … or so they think.
The Gen Z Woman, What They Are
Firstly, if you haven’t read our article on Feminism and The Millennial Man – A Single Woman’s Nightmare check them out here.
Entitlement and Selfishness are the modern woman’s Modis Operandi, and boy is it serving them well. The modern Gen Z young woman, overall, when looking at the average’s, have the following attributes,
Self-value from Sexual objectification
Immodest in their behaviour and Dress
The modern woman knows nothing of their role, their purpose, the reason they exist, or what indeed will lead to an enjoyable and content life. They have been fooled by the post-modern movement into thinking that experience, sexualization, materialism, money and class is their ultimate path to happiness.
Gen Z’s live for the experience, no matter how ungodly or evil it might be. Living day to day with their minds consumed of nothing more than a hot dress and a cocktail party.
Welcome to “Girl Math”: Possibly the dumbest view of money in the history of humanity. Concepts like the following reign true in the Gen Z mind,
If it is on sale, you’re making a profit.
Buying accessories is a good investment.
Always pay more for free shipping.
If I preload my account, it’s free.
Anything bought in advance is free.
Men “the non-tyrannical ones!” have, for centuries, led, coveted, and protected their women in marriage, guiding them away from anything close to this kind of behavior or stupid logic. We shudder to think what the next generation of women will be like if this is their moral basis for money!
There is however a darker side; money for the Gen Z woman is led by sexual materialism, whereby a Gen Z girl obtains as much money as possible, either by work, from a boyfriend or worse, where she will then spend said money on class items, dress, and nights out to increase their social status and experience.
Money has taken on a new meaning in the modern world for the Gen Z woman, and its all bad! In a world where social class is everything, the new target becomes how hot a girl can look at the club on a Saturday night, which too often results in how bad she has presented herself to the world after a night of drinking.
Money is now perfectly intertwined with value and looks. To the average Gen Z woman money is not what God intended it to be, an attribute of one’s labor,
Proverbs 31: 24-25 “She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.”
Proverbs 31:31 “She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.”
The modern woman rejects the concept that the man in the marriage holds the wealth, and that she should not receive any benefit in life if she is idle. The concept is polar opposites in the modern world where the modern Gen Z woman “gets what she wants.” All one must do to confirm the disgusting greed that has consumed our society is to look at divorce cases where women crave large settlements from broken marriages.
God’s ways are perfect, and this generation is falling well short!
Exodus 21:11 “And if he do not these three unto her, then shall she go out free without money.”
Proverbs 19:14 “House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the Lord.”
Gen Z Marriage, A Foundation of Sand
Gone are the days where a woman reaches adulthood under her parents, finds a valuable man, and begins to build a moral, valuable, and purposeful life. Gen Z woman are now marrying much later in life, after going through a decade of adulthood single, and enjoying the pleasures of this world that ultimately have irreversible damage for their long term happiness, It is very hard to “unexperience” immoral experiences! When they do marry, their marriages have a foundation that is causing divorce/separation at rates never seen in the history of humanity.
It is no wonder then, when we look at how Gen Z’s have removed God and morals from marriage, combined with what they base their sentiments of marriage on, that they are failing at these astronomical rates.
It was no surprise to us, based on all the data above (look at the linked post for this) that we discovered the following results from a recent study on Generation Z marriage performed in Sweden. The topic was “winning the lottery and divorce” and the highlights from the study are,
Men who win the lottery, have an increased marriage rate, and a lower chance of divorce.
Women who win the lottery have a decreased marriage rate, and a higher chance of divorce.
Women who win the lottery have a 50% higher chance of filling for divorce than men who win the lottery.
Husbands who win the lottery end up having more children than husbands who do not win the lottery.
When a winning lottery player is a woman, estimates are that a $144k and windfall almost doubles the chances that she will file for divorce.
What Do We Expect – The Equal Equity Disaster
Removing God, introducing modern hedonism, and bringing equality into the marriage has led to disastrous consequences. Generation Z women have fallen for three scams introduced by Satan and his minions:
You will be well served by living your life, searching for what feels good and experiencing that to its fullest.
You MUST be equal to men to achieve happiness.
You will not be happy marrying and having children. Career, money, and class have replaced these archaic targets in life.
If you have read our article on Feminism, you will know that the data is in, and its conclusion is undeniable. The way women are choosing to live their lives in the modern world is not making them happy. Women’s happiness is in terminal decline in the modern world of equality.
When we counsel women in our marriage counselling courses, we find the same pattern over and over,
Women who are married and are responsible for the provision of the home have increased anxiety or stress compared with women who have a strong Godly male provider.
Women who are financially responsible for the household are less happy than women who have a husband that is financially responsible for the household.
Women who stay at home and care for young children have increased happiness compared with women who have careers and leave their children to daycare.
Overall, this fallacy that men and women are equal, and that women should have like for like careers and lifestyles as men do is destroying female happiness!
What we are not saying is that a woman being under their husbands are of lower value. That position would be absurd! In fact, it is our position here at TGM, as we fall under the teaching of the word of God, that a women should be valued before the man values himself, however, only if she is operating inline with the word of God in her life and not living like a modern Gen Z woman does.
It’s Not Only The Atheists
To our surprise, when researching this topic we found that Gen Z women of all religious denominations are affected by the craze of money, equality, and experience. Here is a brief list of internet dating profile statements on “CHRISTIAN” Gen Z women profiles:
Spoil me, make me happy so I can spoil you.
Rich men need only apply!
Can you take care of my bank account so I can take care of you?
Only message me if you make three figures.
We’re not entirely sure what to say here, other than we hope that Godly men have enough guidance and perception to not even entertain a women that holds such a narrow minded view of a relationship.
The Final Straw – A Moral Degradation
A common theme that almost everyone in society held until the 1970’s was to find a valuable woman, that will be a good wife and a good mother for you and your family. Partner selection has always been critical for a happy and purposeful life! Men up until the waves of feminism used to seek and find the following qualities in a potential woman for a wife:
A chaste woman
Loyal, with eyes only for her husband.
A keeper of the home
A sober woman
High confidence / Self Esteem
Free from tattoos / Maladaptive Identity
Hard working “A woman who does not want a free ride”
Proverbs 31:27 “She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.”
I’m sure you’ve heard of “dress for the job you want, not the job you have.” Well, the Gen Z women are failing at this catastrophically! To recognize this, all one must do is browse any one of the modern internet dating sites and look at the averages; Gen Z women meet little to no qualities mentioned in the above list.
Why is it important? The further a woman departs from possessing the qualities of the above list, the greater liability she will be in marriage.
The Submissive Resurgence – Men Don’t Fall For The Scam
There has been, as far as we can tell, a resurgence in young women today seeking a submissive role in marriage. On surface level it sounds good, but as always, the devil is in the detail.
Popular You Tubers find young women on Saturday nights in “party mode” and interview them to learn how these women are “apparently” rejecting feminism and now want the following:
To stay at home.
To let the man be in charge.
To not have to make all the big decisions.
As if they have seen the light and are now turning from their wicked ways. Well, excuse me to these women, but when you agree to the following, we will take you seriously:
You agree to turn off your social media.
You stop plastering yourself with ridiculous tattoos.
You stop drinking alcohol.
You agree to dress modestly; presenting yourself valuable to your husband.
You exist for your husband’s purpose and plan for your lives.
You do not idolize class, and you reject materialism.
You learn the actual value of money and reject greed.
You begin your journey to learn what it is to be a keeper of the home.
You work equally as hard as your husband as directed by him; your candle does not go out morning or night.
You remain faithful to your husband; keeping your eyes for him all the days of your life.
Until you add all these to your list of values, you’re only fooling yourself!
We here at TGM are realists, and we do not live in hope that society will self-correct, and that all women will pivot and begin valuing God, turning to his ways in their lives and aim to become a virtuous woman of God for their husbands. Our main goals in this article are:
To reach the Godly men out there and warn them to search diligently for a valuable wife in this modern world full of red flags. Look carefully; assess what your potential mate values in their life. Do they know their Godly role in marriage and will they partake in that role forever with you?
To reach all women out there, to plead with you to assess what you value in life, and to challenge you on what you think will make you happy! Don’t fall for the scams of the enemy; research the data before it’s too late and you end up 45 years old and miserable with a broken home or childless.
God is the same yesterday, today, and forever, and He has a plan for everyone’s life that is just and full of purpose, if you choose to seek him first.
Matthew 6:33 “But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.”