My Action on Social Media Recently!
This post is for those who don’t read my writings on social media! The comment section is open for those of you who would like to discuss anything. Does anyone even read blogs anymore? I do!
Beth Moore: “You have beaten the drum loudly about what women in SBC churches cannot do. So, what CAN they do? Clarity here is essential. What is a woman to do who has been gifted BY GOD to teach the Bible, especially if her church has moved to the community group model and there is no Sunday school to teach?”
God: “The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.” (Titus 2:3-5)
Women who become doctors and lawyers steal jobs away from men who need them to support their families, and then often these women decide they want to be home with their children. Women are far less reliable in these jobs than men. It’s because they weren’t created for the stress of the workforce.
I would rather be home making bread and cooking healthy meals for my family, teaching my grandchildren about the Lord and His ways, keeping my home clean and tidy, and teaching women the beautiful ways of the Lord than doing anything in the workforce. 🤩
God is a Patriarchal God. But I would have you know that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God. (1 Corinthians 11:13)
This is the dress I wore yesterday to church. I always wear a camisole under it. If you have a dress that’s low in front, I encourage you to wear one too. I was at the bank last week, and one of the tellers bent over in front of me to sign off my check, and I could see it all. I felt sorry for all the men who would see this. Don’t show your breasts to anyone but your husband. Be modest as God commands us to be.
Women who truly love the Lord and His Word are NEVER offended by any of His commands to them, no matter how out-of-date those commands are.
They’re sober. They take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ. They are controlled by Truth, not emotions, alcohol, or drugs.
The love, submit to, and reverence their husbands.
They love bearing and raising children.
They dress modestly and are discreet.
They’re sexually pure.
They’re keepers at home.
They’re silent in the churches.
They have meek and quiet spirits.
If God doesn’t want women in authority in the churches because He created Adam first and the woman was deceived (1 Tim 2:11-14), and He created husbands to be head over their wives (Eph 5:23), then why would He want women in authority anywhere else?
Meditating on God’s Word heals your mind.
“For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a *sound mind*.” (2 Tim 1:7)
God promises us a *sound mind*. How are we transformed?
“And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the *renewing of your mind*, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.” (Romans 12:2)
We’re transformed by renewing our *minds* with Truth, God’s Word.
This is why you must let His Word dwell within you richly, and learn to take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ.
“Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose *mind* is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee.” (Isaiah 26:3)
The battle is in the *mind*.
“Bless you, ladies. We want you soft, emotional, tearful, and sympathetic, but we don’t want you for our judges, president, or for our pastors, because there are things that need to be dealt with in a manly fashion. Right and wrong, not how I feel about it. Good and evil: ‘Shouldn’t we be nice?’ Women will let things go that shouldn’t be let go, because they don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings. This creates an effeminate culture.” (Pastor James Knox)
Many women have written to me asking for advice. They went to college and have a large debt. They married, and their husbands want them to keep working to help pay off the debt. So, instead of being home and having a greater chance of pregnancy (less stress), they must stay in the workforce. Can’t you see what a trap feminism is, women?
We’ve been watching this series. It’s decent: no sex, immodesty, or foul language. It was good until the third season. Then it tanked. The woman engaged to McGregor bought the newspaper, runs a farm, and is the schoolteacher, so she doesn’t want to marry him yet.
Having a career and making money is far more important, even though he is a wealthy cattle rancher. Hollywood invented this message for women a long time ago. Independence and money are more important than building a family. And women believed it. 😞 (Many of the episodes are great! However, you will need to point out the feminism if your children watch with you. It’s on YouTube for free and has many exciting episodes!)
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22 thoughts on “My Action on Social Media Recently!”
The original Man from Snowy River movie was excellent. The Return to Snowy River was almost as good, except for the clumsy definition of Aussie words. Poddy Dodging comes to mind. Much excellent horsemanship.
Hi Lori! I absolutely still read your blog. I am not on social media. The Lord put your blog in my life with your viral post all of those years ago about Debt Free Virgins Without Tattoos and I’ve seen you as such a mentor. I have your books, and your blog is even bookmarked on my internet tabs so I can randomly read some posts for inspiration. You and the late Laine are wonderful inspiration of what it means to be living for the Lord and as a Proverbs 31 woman. All I can say is thank you, from a 30 year old mother of three, and I hope to meet you one day in His Kingdom! God Bless!
P.S. I would love more posts on health and diet/nutrition tips, and how to keep a home clean with little ones!
I’m grateful you’ve opened comments.
Thank you and God bless.💐
Hi Lori…
Yes, I still read your blog regularly, and I continue on the straight and narrow path that leads to a more abundant life in Christ—with a heart for home and family. Thank you for encouraging me through the years.
Thank you, Holly!
Thank you, Cristy! Have you bought my newest book “The Transformed Kitchen”? It has a lot of health articles and tips along with my favorite recipes in it. And, I am sure we will meet and spend eternity in heaven together! Oh, what a day of rejoicing that will be.
Thank you, Bill. We will watch the original movie next. We’re still only on season three of the series one. We are enjoying it!
I read your blog every time I see the email come up that you posted a new blog! I have been reading for the past 6 years and absolutely love it and have boought your transformed wife book and given it to many women. Any opportunity I can I share your blog with them to help encourage them to be a better wife. Thank you for all you have done and doing the hard work of speaking the truth to women in a culture that hates the truth. Much love from Rachel s wife and mother of 6 children married 12 years!
Thank you, Rachel! God’s ways are so good.
I too read your blog still. I’ve been reading it for maybe 14 years? I check it almost daily but have been at church camp with my kids this past week and am just now checking it.
Hi, Lori!
Yes, I too still read your blog and love it! And I love your dress! It’s so feminine!
As a stay at home wife, I have only 1 friend that as I stays at home, and she lives far from me, so we don’t meet often, sadly. All the others work away from home and don’t even want to listen about quitting their jobs, unfortunately…
I just read Titus 2:3-5 last night and it does say that we must be keepers at home, not anything else outside our homes. I pray God touches their hearts, like He touched your heart, mine and that from other godly women.
Have a blessed weekend!
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Lori, I have been watching alot of James Knox from your recommendation and it is a blessing .
I have a genuine question and normally am very private.
What would you suggest to a wife of 30 years whose husband is critical and picks for hours on end? Cruel and condemning, fault finding.
I have been a Christian for 20 years now. He was also saved within that same year.
I learned from the Pearls and our marriage changed to some extent, but the things that are suggested, don’t usually work on my husband.
Our children are in late teens and early 20’s still at home working on our family business. Yet, he is so critical and unbearable they are looking to leave home and are even heartbroken over it. But it’s every day, at every meeting with him.
We don’t have a church, we usually don’t have the vehicle to get to one.
His work has been sporadic since we moved across country. We had 30 acres, but lost it all.
I try to attribute much of the critical, awful verbal stuff to lack of money and loss of land and home, etc but the children have gently pointed out that he’s always been this way ..it was just easier to cushion with “stuff”. I sadly must agree.
I’m weary and my heart breaks for the kids because this isn’t really what they want. They love us and most I’m love the Lord. They’re good, clean kids.
Yes, Paula, God’s ways are perfect! We must trust and obey Him; for there is no other way to be happy in Jesus but to trust and obey! 🙂
Thank you, Michelle!
Dear Rose,
Every time he says something cruel to you, put up your shield of faith in front of you and ping those cruel comments straight up to the Lord. Don’t allow him to steal your joy; for the joy of the Lord is your strength. Remember that a soft answer turns away wrath.
Find a godly, older woman who you can meet with on a regular basis to encourage you and give you wisdom. You can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens you. This means you can do everything that He commands of you. Yes, you can love and submit to him with a meek and quiet spirit. Pour love and grace upon him as Christ does for you. Show him Jesus. He’s most likely miserable and needs to see the joy of Jesus in and through you. Remember, this is a spiritual battle.
Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked. (Eph 6:16)
Lori. I have followed your blog and Facebook pages for YEARS! Keep up the great work. I am a stay home mom, my kid is now 22 years old and I’m still home full time. Im in my perimenopause stage and cannot imaging having to work in this condition. Some days I get BV, yeast infection and extreme fatigue. Oh the other day my knees and lower back hurted. lol It’s wild out here as we age.
Ladies if you can, do anything to stay home! Perimenopause and menopause is NOT for the faint. HAHA
Lori you’re a blessing to women. I am 40 and love your wisdom. There aren’t many who live this way anymore.
Thank you Yes, I have told my husband that I am so thankful that it is me that has suffered so much physically rather than him since I wasn’t created for the workforce and he was!
Good morning Lori! (Well it’s morning here 😍) I still read your blog and I’m 65 years old! I wish more young women would be willing to listen to us older Christian women. I watched a podcast recently that had a young foolish woman “pastor” who was clapping back and women who criticized her decision to wear an extremely immodest dress that her husband bought to a gala of some sort . Sadly the the more she spoke it became apparent she was very prideful and the podcast host he was totally defending her actions. I think what was even more sad was the comment section was full of women of all ages defending her.
I pray that the godly women who didn’t defend her actions were able to plant seeds in the women watched the podcast and somehow will seek older women who can guide them through scriptural truth.
Thank you Lori for continuing to stay faithful to the Word and warning us to avoid women like the one I mentioned and Beth Moore.
P.S. There is a typo in your 1st Corinthians reference. It should say 1st Corinthians 11:3 instead of 14:3.
I’m a faithful blog reader! I always look forward to your posts! I’m actually speaking at a woman’s brunch for my mother’s church. I’m independent Baptist and her church is non-denominational. I’m strictly sticking to things about biblical womanhood. Specifically obedience and submission in marriage. I’m nervous because I’m worried some might be offended. I could use some prayer for boldness to speak truth. I was able to have victory over depression because of Debi Pearl’s books and your blog/book. I love the Lord’s ways and I never want to go back to living by what the world says. I’m praying to plant seeds in women’s hearts and encourage them to give God’s ways a chance. I appreciate all you do. Thank you for always pointing us back to Jesus.
Thank you, Regina, and I definitely remember you! You’re just a few years younger than me. I saw clips of the TPUSA Women’s Leadership summit. It’s all women standing up on stage behind a pulpit in front large audiences “preaching” and not all of them were dressed modestly. I definitely seen the Church growing lukewarm. It’s heartbreaking. I will correct the typo. Thank you for pointing it out!
Hi Hannah! You most likely will offend some or many of the women. It’s not easy to teach biblical womanhood in this day and age, but you are doing the right thing. Whether or not it offends them. Speaking the truth in love is what matters. You are pleasing the Lord by walking in obedience to Him. May the Lord speak through you.
Such a pretty Dress !!! So modest too !!! Wish I could find more modest dresses. A lot of the stores are selling too revealing clothes these days – even for children !!!! Anyone know of stores either online or actual brick and mortar stores that sell modest dresses, tops, and pants for women ? Thank You in advance!