Throughout the years, I have received many private messages from women telling me that their husbands aren’t interested in sex. Maybe they’ll want it once or twice a month, but that’s it. I asked the women in the chat room what advice they would give to these women. The only thing I could think of was addiction to porn since I know this messes up the brain. These women had some great advice! “I don’t know that all men not…
Posted by Joseph Spurgeon on Facebook Westminster Divine Daniel Cawdrey on a Woman’s Subjection to Her Husband (He wouldn’t be well received by reformed people today): Question. What is the main duty of the wife? Answer. Subjection or submission to her husband (Genesis 3: 16). Question. What does this subjection consist of? Answer. In these two things: an acknowledgment of his superiority over her. In her respect to him, as her superior. Question. How does it appear that her husband…
Housekeeping Monthly in May of 1955 reportedly published an article on how to be a good wife. It was called, “The Good Wife’s Guide.” Women mock these today, but most marriages would be strong and survive until death to they part IF these were followed. (I will add my commentary on some of them!) 1. Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of…
A few months ago, I decided to have all of the articles from New Harvest Homestead written by Lisa Vitello typed out for me so I could make posts from them. Lisa wrote these in the early to mid 2000s and they’re full of gems of wisdom. I decided to put together one this morning and she titled it “Titus 2 Wisdom: Loving Our Husbands” which is ironic since I just posted my video “Learning to Love Our Husbands” for…
This is an email a woman wrote to me. She gave me permission to share it. I follow your main page The Transformed Wife. I saw your post teaching women how to handle it when their husbands are committing adultery. My husband committed adultery last year with a girl ten years younger than us. I believe it happened because I was quarrelsome, and I wasn’t letting my husband lead. I believe I did play a part and drove him away…
The other night, I listened to a sermon by Voddie Baucham called The Sufficiency of Scripture in the Disciple-Making Ministry of the Church and the Home. I encourage you to all go listen to it! He affirms what I teach concerning what women should be teaching other women. Older women are commanded to teach younger women. What are they commanded to teach them, so the young women don’t blaspheme God’s Word? “That they may teach the young women theology, Bible,…
Written by Ken Lori’s ministry is very broad and across many platforms speaking truth to Christian women in a day when most pastors and prominent women who teach the Bible refuse to teach what God has commanded in Titus 2. The fruit of her ministry has been outstanding with many lives and marriages changed. Every week, we see more testimonies of God’s powerful work in the lives of believers who are willing to choose to do things God’s ways even…
Awhile ago, a man encouraged me to get onto TikTok and speak Truth to the many women who are lost and doing things they shouldn’t be doing. So, I have been making videos every now and then. I made a video a few days ago called Stop Posting Promiscuous Pictures of Yourself. It’s going viral. I pray at least some women are convicted about this. There are many reasons for not doing this, women. Men see you as sexual objects….
Should women give their husbands, who are having an affair, sexual intimacy in hopes of winning them back? I’ve been pondering this lately since making my video about this. Some say no way! Not until they repent and are checked for STDs, but there are some women who did give their husbands sex in hopes of winning them back. One even got an STD and didn’t win him back. Are we promised no scars in the battle? Was it worth…
Recently, more than a few women have written to me telling me their husband is having an affair, i.e. committing adultery. Some of these women have as many as five young children. They are devastated and heartbroken. Instead of writing a post about this, I made a video since I thought it would be better for me to say these things to you “in person” than on paper. I pray this will encourage you and give you wisdom. He’s Having…