Jillian Sanders wrote an article titled “The Era of Desperate Single Women is Over – Here’s What Women are Choosing Instead.” Jillian wrote, “In quiet, almost invisible ways, they’re taught to be the helper, the caretaker—the one who smooths edges, anticipates needs, and makes life easier for everyone else.” Oh, really? No, we’re taught to be feminists from the time we are toddlers. Girls are constantly asked what they want to be when they grow up, and they’re not allowed to say wife, mother, and homemaker. They must name a career and believe that they never want to be dependent upon a man since they are strong and independent!

“Across the country, women are opting out of marriages, timelines, and expectations that no longer fit.” This is true but is it good? No, birth rates are tanking. Depression and suicide in women have skyrocketed. A large portion of women are on anti-depressants. Women not wanting God’s will for them but instead live in rebellion to Him have harmed them in numerous ways.

“According to Harvard Health Publishing, married men are healthier, live longer, and experience greater emotional well-being than their unmarried counterparts—and those benefits increase the longer they stay married. For women, the benefits are more mixed. Many take on a larger share of caregiving, housework, and emotional labor—even while working full-time. Over time, the weight of it all can quietly wear them down.” I hope you all see the problem here. “Even while working full-time…” Women wanted to have it all. They wanted a career, marriage, and children. It’s not good for men to be alone. God created a helper for him. Unfortunately, most men’s helper has gone her own way and is rarely home, so she’s rarely available for the children and him. This is a recipe for divorce.

“Only 34 percent of single women in the U.S. are actively seeking romantic relationships, compared to 54 percent of single men, according to a 2022 Pew Research Center study.” Women are choosing their careers and growing old alone with their cats rather than marriage, children, and being homemakers. They have been deceived greatly.

“Research also shows that women are nearly twice as likely as men to seek therapy, engage in self-reflection, and pursue emotional growth. In heterosexual relationships, this often places them in the role of emotional first responder—initiating hard conversations, managing the emotional environment, and sustaining connection. Over time, this imbalance leads to burnout. No wonder nearly 70 percent of divorces are initiated by women—not because they’re unwilling to work at love, but because they’re tired of doing all the work alone.” The issue here is the greatest problem most women have. They allow their emotions to rule them rather than Truth. Instead of taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ, they allow their sinful flesh, worldly lusts, and feminism to lead and guide them down a wicked path of destruction.

“One woman I spoke to, who is 38, said she’s torn: ‘I don’t want to raise a child alone, but I also don’t want to get married just to have help.’ Still, more and more women are forging ahead sans partner. Clinics are reporting a rise in solo motherhood by choice, with more single women pursuing IUI, IVF, or adoption.” Children NEED fathers! My husband works hard so I can be home full time. I was always available for my children. My children were secure knowing their dad would always come home and play with them, talk with them, and love them. The lies these women are believing is so heartbreaking.

The bottom line is women are not being taught how to be good and godly wives and mothers. They’re being taught to be feminists who demand their own way which has led them to nothing good.

Thus saith the Lord, Stand ye in the ways, and see, and ask for the old paths, where is the good way, and walk therein, and ye shall find rest for your souls. But they said, We will not walk therein.
Jeremiah 6:16

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