John Michael Clark wrote a list for men on these issues, so I decided to write a similar list for women. A few tips on building attraction with your husband: 1. Pay attention to what makes him moody. 2. Don’t get upset when he shuts you down. 3. Publicly embarrass him with compliments. 4. Look up and smile at him when he enters the room. 5. Make his life more restful by not arguing with him and not needing to…
In 1996, Pastor John MacArthur preached a series of sermons called The Fulfilled Family. I quoted one in a post a few days ago. The first sermon in the series is called “A Plan For Your Family.” Feminism’s goal was to destroy the family, and they have been successful at doing this. When the family is destroyed, the nation is destroyed. We can’t expect to wander far from God’s design for us and have anything good come from it. Here’s…
In an article in the WSJ called “Cheap Sex and the Decline of Marriage,” you will find that the free, cheap sex that feminism promoted is not so cheap. There are some very interesting facts in this article that aren’t even written from a Christian perspective. A man named Kevin said this, “Girls are easier to mislead than guys just by lying or just not really caring. If you know what girls want, then you know you should not give…
Whether we like to admit it or not, our parents’ marriage impacted our marriages for better or worse. It’s the greatest model we had in our childhoods of what a marriage should look like. Taking on the good things to our own marriage is good, and unlearning the bad things is vital to a healthy marriage. I asked the women in the chat room to share what they had learned from their parents’ marriage and how it impacted them. I…
Throughout the years, I have been asked a lot of questions from women about sex in marriage. The questions about oral and anal sex are the ones most commonly asked. I love what Got Questions has to say about both of these: “Is oral sex a sin if done within a marriage? “Many, perhaps most, Christian married couples have had this question. What makes it difficult is the fact that the Bible nowhere says what is allowed or disallowed sexually…
⨠Yesterday, I proved that women overwhelmingly reject being taught to learn what pleases their husbands and to be sexually available to them no matter who delivers the message or how it’s delivered. ⨠First, I shared a post with my write up and a link to the pastor who preached on this topic. Women were furious with him and me for even pointing out the good things he taught, even though I shared the things I disagreed with. ⨅
There’s a viral video of a pastor who actually preached to wives. This is SO uncommon. How many of you have ever heard a sermon preached to only wives by a man? So, here’s one who finally does and explains clearly men’s battle and what they would love from their wives; then he gets blistered. Sure, he could have stated some things a bit differently and left out a few things, but overall, he was spot on. The title under…
Every week, I pick up one of my children’s four children and have them over for the day. This is to give my DIL a break, and I enjoy having them. We work puzzles and I read to them, but we mostly are outside in the front where many of the neighborhood children come to play too. Whenever I have a set of the grandchildren here, my oldest daughter will drop off her 18 month old son, since he loves…
Written By John MacArthur and Jeremiah Johnson “No biblical standard is more viciously attacked today than the God-ordained role of women in society. And no passage is more ridiculed or reinterpreted by assailants within the church than these two verses.” That sober warning comes from John MacArthur’s commentary on the book of Titus. The controversial verses in question are Titus 2:4-5: “so that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible,…
Apparently, explaining to women that they are not to deprive their husbands, since God is the One who commands this, creates a scenario where sex becomes a “duty” and they no longer enjoy sex. Sex becomes dull. Can I tell you what this attitude boils down to? Rebellion, plain and simple. God commands many things of us, many, and they are ALL for our good! When supposed “sex teachers” are teaching women that duty sex is wrong, they are teaching…