Written By Joseph Spurgeon Voddie Baucham says that whenever a young person asks what he or she can do to be serious about serving the Lord, he always says the same thing. When young men say, “How can I enter ministry?” or young ladies say, “What can I do to serve Jesus?” they are probably anticipating something about going to college or seminary or traveling to some foreign country to do missions. Maybe they are expecting him to tell them…
A man on Facebook named Dr. K. N. Jacob wrote the following: “If you are not attracted to him, DON’T MARRY HIM. “It’s never too late to get married. Marriage matters, never act out of panic. It’s better to be single than with a man you are not attracted to. The primary purpose of marriage is intimacy. Companionship can be found with your family and friends. Children can be adopted. “A lot of ladies past 30 years make this blunder…
Many try to argue that the authority structure between men and women only happened after the Fall but was completely done away with in Christ. Both assumptions are completely false. In Wayne Grudem’s book Systematic Theology, he clearly explains the authority structure before the Fall. I will summarized them. Adam was created first, then Eve. The reasons for women being silent in the church even goes back to this fact in 1 Timothy 2:13. Eve was created as Adam’s help…
Dr. KN Jacob made a video about Seven Reasons Why Men Leave Their Wives After Many Years Together. It was excellent! I am going to summarize his points and add some of my own. I have seen marriages end after many, many years of being together. It harms the adult children just as much as it would have if the parents divorced earlier. Divorce has long-term consequences to the next generations. Women, do all you can to keep your marriages…
Many feminists want to argue that there was no authority structure in place before the Fall. It was only due to the Fall that man was to rule over his wife. They then argue since Christ came and obliterated sin, these roles no longer apply, thus there’s now no longer an authority structure in marriage. They are so deceived, women! And many, many teach these lies. This is where the idea of an egalitarian marriage comes from. There was an…
A few days ago, I made a video titled The Submission of a Wife to Her Husband. Someone asked me about submitting to a husband who wants his wife and children to be vaccinated, but she doesn’t want this. I made a video about this the next day trying to answer her to the best of my ability. It wasn’t easy, since I am very much against vaccinations, but I fully support God’s Word and His will. I shared the…
A few weeks ago, a young man told me his girlfriend was going to have a baby. I told him the importance of marriage and how that baby NEEDS his mother and father to be married and living under the same roof. I reminded him that he had this and what security it bought him. The young man seemed a bit uncomfortable. I told his dad the next day what I had told his son and said I hope I…
Eric Conn is a wise man. I share many of his tweets on my social media sites. Recently, he shared this one. Joseph Spurgeon responded to this tweet by writing the following: I agree with Mr. Conn, but I want to address one of the responses to his post. Someone argued that until we get solutions to the problems that men face in buying a house, dealing with courts, and getting better economic status, then how can we expect men…
“Marriage and motherhood are not a woman’s highest calling. The NT explicitly tells us in 1 Corinthians 7 that only those who burn with lust need to marry so as to avoid sexual temptation. Getting married is a kind of gift to glorify God and according to Paul, it’s but ONE kind of gift.” (Ariel Gonzalez Bovat on Instagram). In the beginning, God created Adam. God said it was NOT good for man to be alone, so He created Eve…
The definition of marriage has been incredibly watered down in our culture. Many believe they don’t need a piece of paper. They can live together, and this is okay. Many young “Christians” believe this to be true. Some believe if you’re having sex and even having children, you’re married. So what exactly is marriage? “But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave…