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Divorcing Since They Grew Apart

Divorcing Since They Grew Apart

A woman wrote about divorcing her husband. This was the message she gave publicly: “With great sadness, after 10 years together, we have come to a loving conclusion to get a divorce. We have nothing but love and respect for one another and are deeply grateful for the years shared, memories made, and the children we are so proud of. This is just the situation of two people growing apart. We ask everyone to respect our privacy as we navigate…

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Do I Make Virginity an Idol?

Do I Make Virginity an Idol?

People accuse me of making an idol of virginity especially since my viral post. I am considered some type of nut case by unbelievers or a far-right legalistic by many Christians. They claim I didn’t consider the widows, the sexually abused, or those who were promiscuous in their past. They fail to realize that God commands older women to teach young women to be “chaste” (Titus 2:3-5), so this is what I do. I believe all of God’s ways are…

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What He Asked Her on Their First Date

What He Asked Her on Their First Date

It seems that most couples who are dating, don’t delve in deeply what they expect in marriage. This is why many women bemoan the fact that their husbands don’t want them to be keepers home, but it is a wise man and woman who asks deep and important questions before getting emotionally involved with someone they want to marry. Here is a comment by a woman in the chat room and what her husband asked her on their first date….

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Love is NOT a Feeling!

Love is NOT a Feeling!

Many will argue that love is a feeling. I wrote this on my Facebook page the other day: “There is no such thing as ‘falling in love.’ Read 1 Corinthians 13:4-8. This is the definition of love. It has nothing to do with emotions and feelings which come and go. True love doesn’t, because it’s a commitment, a decision, a choice until death do you part.” Many, many disagreed with me since most think that love has to do with…

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The Virus Invading Christian Marriages

The Virus Invading Christian Marriages

Written By Ken As the Corona virus whacks this country and the rest of world, I cannot help but think about the parallels between it and Christian marriages. Christian marriages appear to be suffering from multiple flu-like symptoms which find their way to the comment section of this ministry. We wish we had a cure for these particular marriage viruses, but because there appears to be no cure in sight, the only hope is to try and protect the ministry…

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Suffering in This Life is Unavoidable

Suffering in This Life is Unavoidable

A comment by Mother Dearest on the post Christian Men Going Their Own Wrong Way It’s a matter of urgency, Christians, both men and women need to be disabused of the fanciful notion that suffering in this life is avoidable. No amount of spouse vetting can guarantee a successful marriage, yet God says it is not good for the man to be alone. In fact, in 1 Timothy 4:1-3, one of the doctrines of demons to come in the latter…

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Keeping Harmony in the Home

Keeping Harmony in the Home

Divorces in China are skyrocketing after couples have been quarantined together for a couple of months. This is a tragedy that I hope will not happen here. How can we, as wives, make sure that our marriages stay on solid ground during this time? I watched a YouTube video about and interviewing Jacqueline Kennedy yesterday and I want you to read these words carefully, many of them said by her. “I liked staying in the background. I think he appreciated…

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The Heartbroken Career Woman

The Heartbroken Career Woman

This post contains notes I took from a video by Jennifer Morse from “The Ruth Institute.” “We must clean up the mess from the sexual revolution. These are the victims of the sexual revolution: 1) Children of divorce (no-fault divorce); 2) Reluctantly divorced (One party doesn’t want to get divorced but the government sides with the one who wants the divorce.); 3) Donor conceived persons; 4) The hook-up culture; 4) Heartbroken career women. “The heartbroken career women have it all:…

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Dealing With a Messy Husband

Dealing With a Messy Husband

Yes, there are women who are married to messy husbands. These husbands come home from a long day at work and have no interest in doing any housework or even cleaning up after themselves. After all, they married a help meet for a reason! I know, many women don’t look at it this way and their messy husbands drive them crazy. What are they to do? Here are a few comments left on my Facebook page by women yesterday concerning…

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Is Submission Unquestioning Obedience?

Is Submission Unquestioning Obedience?

Someone tweeted this comment: “Biblical submission is not the same as the submission some preach. It’s not BDSM, it’s not unquestioning obedience, it’s not degrading or a lowering of the woman’s value…” I would truly like to know WHO teaches that submission is BDSM, unquestioning obedience, or that it degrades and lowers a woman’s value. The ONLY ones I could see teaching this type of submission are those who hate biblical submission and want to twist it into something ugly…

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