The Transformed Wife

“Research shows men and women have affairs for different reasons. For men, it’s almost always a result of a sexless marriage. For women, it’s a result of emotional deprivation: the husband is too wrapped up in his job or his hobbies or whatever else to give his wife the time and attention she needs. That’s a great example of how the research shows men and women have affairs for different reasons. Many wives are all too happy to go years…

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As many of you know, Debi Pearl’s book “Created to Be His Help Meet” is the book that began the transformation of my marriage. I read it with eagerness and was thoroughly convicted throughout the book. I was so convicted that I bought cases of the book to hand out to every woman that I knew. I mentored groups of women and individual women with this book for many years. Yes, I have heard all of the arguments against it,…

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“Directing your husband’s traffic undermines this goal by setting up a mother/son relationship rather than a husband/wife relationship. That’s why the sex wanes. What kind of man wants to have sex with his mother? So, what does it mean exactly to not direct your husband’s traffic? It means not making any comments ever about what you think your husband should be doing or how you think something should or shouldn’t be done. If you find this difficult to do, keep…

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Many women use this verse to try and convince me that God is an egalitarian God who believes that men and women are equal (the same is what feminists actually mean) since they absolutely hate the thought of patriarchy and men in authority: “There is neither Jew not Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus” (Galatians 3:28) Here’s how Trey responded to a woman on my…

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God is a patriarchal God. He set up husbands to be the head of their wives. The wives are commanded to submit to and obey their husbands. Every great institution on this earth has one leader. Marriage is no different. Two heads create a monster with contention and disunity. God created men to be the ones in authority over their home for unity and peace. When wives obey God in this area, they will see the blessings of obedience to…

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My favorite type of fictional novels are historical fictional novels written by Christians, and Jack Cavanaugh is one of my favorites. I read “Songs in the Night” trilogy many years ago but have enjoyed it again recently. Cavanaugh studies history and this book was about WW2. It’s an excellent read! There are a few paragraphs that I want to share with you. In the story, the main character is a married preacher man with a pregnant wife. One of his…

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Susan, a 16-year-old, is at an appointment with her high school guidance counselor. The counselor asks Susan, “So, Susan, what would you like to do with your life?” “I would like nothing more than to be a wife and mother,” Susan answers. “Well, Susan, there’s so much more you can do with your life than just being a wife and mother. How will you be able to support yourself? What if you never marry, and what will you do after…

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A woman named Angela Dougherty wrote this tweet yesterday: “Just ban marriage all together. It is a legal and social institution which exists to benefit men and control women. It’s archaic and unnecessary. Let everyone be responsible for themselves. Hell of a concept all the way around.” The funny thing is that she thinks she’s being profound and thought these concepts up herself. It’s the same concepts that Marxism and the Black Lives Matter Movement pushes. But these concepts aren’t…

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