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Rooted and Grounded in Love

Rooted and Grounded in Love

“That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love…” (Ephesians 3:17). We are to be rooted and grounded in love. Most people these days don’t know what love is. Their love has grown cold. “And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold” (Matthew 24:12). Yes, evil is abounding and families are being torn apart. Few are raised in loving, intact families. Many are being raised in a home…

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Men are Attracted to Women Who are Feminine, Cheerful, and Good Cooks

Men are Attracted to Women Who are Feminine, Cheerful, and Good Cooks

Brometheus tweeted this recently: “Steps for women looking to get engaged: 1) Wear a nice sundress; 2) Smile a lot; 3) Carry a plate of bacon; 4) When people mention the bacon, say, ‘Yes, I made it.’ Men will instantly rate you far above the vast majority of modern women. This ain’t rocket science. It’s that simple.” Most men aren’t that complicated. Women are much more complicated because we tend to be led by our emotions and feelings which change…

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He Wants Porn More Than He Wants Her

He Wants Porn More Than He Wants Her

On my post Women Prefer Men Who Aren’t Porn Addicts, one woman shared a comment about a friend whose husband is addicted to porn and since I know this is a common problem, I thought I would share it as encouragement for those of you who don’t feel desired by their husbands because of their addiction to porn. “A friend of mine shared how she grew up so sheltered that she didn’t know much about porn. She married a godly…

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Living Together Before Marriage IS Sin

Living Together Before Marriage IS Sin

Yesterday, I shared this on social media: “Living together used to be called living in sin. Everyone knew sex outside of marriage was wrong. Changing the name doesn’t negate this fact. Sin cheats yourself out of God’s best. FLEE fornication!” Of course, many vehemently disagreed with me. We live in a wicked generation. Some said that if a couple is living together, they are “married in God’s eyes.” Others said that marriage isn’t a document from the government but simply…

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Men Need Women. Women Need Men.

Men Need Women. Women Need Men.

Last year, I watched a documentary of two couples who had to live like people did in the 1800s for a year. It was a great show! (I did a blog post about it but I forgot the name of it.) One of the women was a feminist and at one point was so frustrated that she couldn’t do the hard work of tilling the land and all of the work the men had to do but instead had to…

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Marrying a Virgin is No Big Deal?

Marrying a Virgin is No Big Deal?

You would think from the reaction (even from Christians) from my viral post, Men Prefer Debt Free Virgins Without Tattoos, that marrying a virgin or not is no big deal. After all, there are few virgins, anyway, so what does it matter? Once one is forgiven, it’s all washed clean, right? For one thing, God, our Creator, tells us that it matters. He commands older women to teach younger women to be chaste. This means to remain virgins until marriage…

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Strong Single Women Advice?

Strong Single Women Advice?

“Strong Single Women: If people tell you that guys are intimidated by you, don’t mind them. Cuz, you are not going to marry that kind of man, else you will crush him and emasculate him. The man you will marry won’t be intimidated by you, but love your strength, because he will also be strong and secure in himself and God.” This was a meme being passed around social media by a Christian woman. Do you think this is good…

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Leaving Behind Her Husband and Children

Leaving Behind Her Husband and Children

There’s an article in The Washington Post written by a woman in her 60s who shared her thoughts about being a wife and mother at home. “In Anne Tyler’s ‘Ladder of Years,’ Delia Grinstead, the 40-year-old protagonist, walks along the beach in her bathing suit with $500 tucked into her tote as she leaves behind her husband and three children. Reading this I wondered, ‘How could she do that? — Why would she do that?’ “Except it wasn’t a single…

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How Wives Try to Control Their Husbands

How Wives Try to Control Their Husbands

In Genesis 3:16, we are told the consequences of sin that women would experience due to sin entering the world. One thing that would happen to them is that “…thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.” There is great disagreement what this actually means. Even the commentaries of old disagree about the interpretation. I believe it means that the woman’s desire will be to control her husband just as in Genesis 4:7, we are…

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Fatherlessness is Destroying Our Country

Fatherlessness is Destroying Our Country

Yesterday, I tweeted this: “The fatherless shooters among us: Of the 27 deadliest mass shooters, 26 were fatherless. It’s NOT gun issue. It’s a ‘lack of fathers’ issue. Despite popular opinion, children need their fathers just as much as they need their mothers.’ One woman asked for the source of this quote. I posted the article for her. Here is an eye-opening comment from the article: “Indeed, there is a direct correlation between boys who grow up with absent fathers…

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