Two weeks ago, I asked the women in the chat room to post a picture of themselves kissing their husbands. Many posted pictures of their wedding day since that was the last picture they had of them kissing. The last picture Ken and I had of us kissing was on our wedding day thirty-six years ago, so I asked him to come kiss me so I could post a picture in the chat room. Yes, it’s a bit blurry since…
Proverbs 31:12 tells us that a godly wife does her husband good and not evil. Some synonyms for good are excellent, favorable, marvelous, positive, superb, valuable, and wonderful. Some antonyms for good (bad = what a godly wife doesn’t want to be known for) are disagreeable, unacceptable, unhelpful, worthless, mean, noxious, rotten, unreliable, vicious, vile, and unvirtuous. Do you do your husband good or evil? She builds up his home, instead of tearing it down. She speaks respectfully to him,…
On Saturday, I was sick, so I watched a Christmas movie on a Christian channel. It was about three couples and two single men getting stuck in a snowstorm and having to stay in a run-down old chapel. One of the couples was just married and on their honeymoon, but she was continually upset with her husband because he wouldn’t listen to and obey her suggestions. One time, she stomped away, and he looked at the man next to him,…
Most of you know that I receive comments that scold and ridicule me about what I teach. I received this comment yesterday from Pamkitten (at least this is what she calls herself). I thought I would answer her in a blog post. “Women fight against this because 1) women are tired of the arrogant way some of you push Scriptures to tell women and beat them over the head about what they are supposedly are doing wrong.” If you aren’t…
Many young women today drink too much alcohol and are not sober-minded. They make decisions based upon their emotions and feelings, instead of what is right and good. This is why they need to be taught to be sober by godly, older women. Many young women divorce their husbands if they are not happy or they nag, manipulate, or try to control them. Many foolish women are tearing their homes down with their own hands. This is why older women…
“You have to realize that there is nothing Christian about the Government Sanctioned ‘Marriage Contracts’ that are being peddled now. They are nothing but tools for lawyers and judges to rob and steal from (mostly) men. Men are slowly learning that marriage is nothing good for them, and reacting by staying away from the fraud,” wrote Tim on my post Men Giving Up on Marriage. Lindsay Harold responded: “It is true that, given the current cultural attitudes about marriage and…
Women who despise what I teach have commented that what I teach is dangerous. I asked the chat room why women believe this and here are some of their responses. Cassi:”I think many women have a warped sense of what submission is, and because of this, they see that submission = abuse.” Robin: “One person relinquishing perceived power, by submission, evokes myriad fears if the woman doesn’t have Christ and trust God. They think they have to protect and provide…
This post is NOT about my husband, as many are claiming. My husband has been faithful to me for our entire marriage. It’s only those who enjoy twisting and misinterpreting words (as they do Scripture) to slander and use against us. Her husband had an affair, but she fought for her marriage using 1 Peter 3:1-6 because she cared more about her husband’s eternal soul and her children’s future than her own happiness. She was willing to do what God…
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God has a perfect recipe for a great marriage, and it’s in Colossians 3. “Seeing that ye have put off the old man with his deeds; And have put on the new man, which is renewed in knowledge after the image of Him that created Him” (Colossians 3:9, 10). The moment we believe, we have put off the old man and put on the new man. We are a brand new creature in Christ. Therefore, since we are a new…